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The Sissy Skin Care Routine

sissy skin care routine

Biologically born males turned sissies—like you and me—have a nasty history of neglecting the skin on our faces. Growing up, it was considered neither masculine nor necessary to spend time on something that was not really all that important.

Well, things are changing for many men in that regard, especially as they grow older. And for us sissies, a sissy skin care routine is not only necessary but mandatory.

Genetic girls have always been keenly aware of how important it is to pamper their skin. They realize that although makeup can cover up many imperfections, beginning with a clean canvas, will allow makeup application to perform it’s beautification magic even better.

It’s time for sissies to follow suit and get on the skin care routine beauty bandwagon that has been more-or-less ignored by many of us for so long. A girl’s face is her most prized asset and it needs to be pampered accordingly.

Beautiful Skin – From the Inside-Out

beauty inside out

Before I delve into how a sissy should take care of her skin on the outside, it’s good to be aware that the skin on your face is, first of all, an organ. Much of it’s overall health and suppleness depends on what’s going on inside of your body.

Smoking, excessive alcohol consumption, a shitty diet and eschewing exercise will work to undermine your skin from the inside-out. Not only the skin on your face, but all over your body. You most likely already know this but it can be good to state the obvious sometimes.

That being said, this article is all about what a sissy such as yourself can do to the outside of your face to have it looking as smooth and supple as possible. Basic sissy skin care can be divided into five distinct areas.


skin cleansing

Many sissies don’t understand the importance of washing their face at night before going to bed. During the day your face is bombarded with pollutants, free radicals, dust, bacteria and collagen-destroying UVA rays.

It’s imperative to get all of that crap off of your face—EVERY DAY! Many GG skin care routines have them washing their face in the morning too. But if once is enough for you, then make sure to do it at night.

Use a specialized facial cleanser, not soap. Facial cleansers are gentler on the skin and will not overly dry it out. Plus, they have hydrating ingredients—like Micellar Water—that will help to hydrate the skin. Regular soap will work to dry your face out way too much.


skin moisturizer

Moisturizing is the next compulsory step in the sissy skin care routine. Aging, the wind, the sun: they all conspire to dry out your face, making it look less-than-youthful. Applying moisturizer twice per day will help to replenish the water content of the skin, combating the damage that the everyday environment can cause.

If you wear makeup, then a lighter moisturizer in the morning is appropriate as it will not compromise your foundation. If you shave, then moisturizing afterwards will help to negate the adverse effects that shaving can have on your face.

In the evening, you can use a thicker moisturizing cream. It’s always better to moisturize while your face is still a bit damp. That will help to lock-in the moisture that is already present on the skin.

When purchasing moisturizing creme, look for ingredients that stimulate the production of collagen. Collagen is a protein that provides structural support to the skin. It creates a matrix-like web of fibers that serve to hold everything together.

As you age, collagen breaks down, causing wrinkles and sagging skin. You want a moisturizing cream that will help to boost collagen production. Look for a product that contains one or more of these collagen promoting ingredients:

  • Vitamin C
  • Retinol (Vitamin A)
  • Hyaluronic Acid
  • Peptides
  • AHA or alpha-hydroxy-acids
  • Aloe Vera

Cleansing and moisturizing are the two vital steps that form the cornerstone of any sissy’s skin care routine. The next three are—if not vital—essential.



The top layer of your skin (epidermis) is made up of four to five sub-layers. As the skin cells of the outer-most layer age and become damaged, they naturally shed away; every three weeks or so. Sometimes you may want to remove that dying superficial layer more often than that. That’s where exfoliating scrubs come into play. Scrubbing will give your face a brand new layer of skin to work with.

In essence, exfoliating scrubs contain micro-scrubbing abrasive beads that work sort of like a household cleanser—but not nearly as caustic. Since, by their very nature, these scrubs are not that gentle, you should exfoliate once or twice per week at most.

Don’t believe that you should use them everyday as the directions might suggest on the back of the bottle. That’s just the marketing department doing its job to get you to use more of their product (wash-rinse-repeat).

Exfoliating on a weekly basis will help to:

  • Deep clean your face
  • Give a healthy, shiny glow to your skin
  • Prevent clogged-up pores
  • Smooth rough patches of skin
  • Stimulate collagen production (depending on the ingredients)

There are many, many types of scrubs available on the market. You’ll have to do your own diligent research as to each one’s effectiveness. Be sure to always wet your face before scrubbing.



There is a common misconception that a facemask is used to exfoliate. Although there are exfoliating masks you can buy, that’s not what a mask is primarily intended to do. A beauty facemask is typically a cream that you apply to your face and leave on for 5 or 10 minutes before washing it off.

Like an exfoliating scrub, a mask, depending on the specific ingredients, should only be used a couple of times per week. Choosing between the different varieties of face masks can be overwhelming. Below are the four main types:

  1. Cream masks
  2. Clay and mud masks
  3. Charcoal masks
  4. Paper masks (popular in Asia)

The main purpose of a beauty facemask is to give the skin a temporary—but intense—dose of additives that will help achieve:

  • Skin hydration
  • Reduce oiliness
  • Improve circulation
  • A smoothing of fine lines
  • Reduce inflammation

The idea is to match the facemask to your skin situation—dry, oily, damaged, aged, etc. Many sissies, and GG alike, underrate how important regular use of a facemask can be to a beautifying skin care routine.

Eye Cream

eye cream

At first glance, eye cream may seem like a not-so-necessary, even extravagant part of the skin care process. But when you take into account under eye puffiness (bags), dark circles, thin lines and wrinkles that can appear around and under the eyes, it’s really not.

An eye cream’s basic job is hydration. They contain moisturizing ingredients specifically formulated for hydrating the thinner, more delicate skin surrounding the eye. There are fewer oil glands under the eye which contributes to dryer skin conditions in that region.

That being said, the truth is that eye creams are not all that effective in eliminating bags and dark circles. However, when it comes to reducing fine lines and wrinkles—due to the loss of collagen—eye creams can yield impressive results. Which means if you’re an older sissy, a good eye cream could, and probably should, be part of your sissy skin care routine.

Eye cream ingredients to look for:

  • Hyaluronic acid or glycerin
  • Emollients such as ceramides and fatty acids
  • Mineral oil
  • Beeswax
  • Retinol (promotes collagen production)
  • Peptides (promotes collagen production)
  • Caffeine (temporary hack for under eye puffiness)

While eye creams have their limitations when it comes to dark circles and bags, a cold, green tea compress can temporarily reduce under eye puffiness as both the caffeine and cold restrict blood flow to the under-eye area.

If you do decide to use an eye cream as part of your skin care routine, the general consensus is to apply it at night. Make sure to dab on the cream; don’t rub it in.

A Sissy Skin Care Routine That Will Work for You

For effective skin care with results that are noticeable, you will need to establish a daily routine. I prefer once-per-day, in the evening.

Beware of sophisticated marketing agendas. The face cream industry is huge, with ginormous marketing budgets designed to get you to spend more money on a perceived miracle product. You absolutely do not need to buy expensive products for effective skin care.

As a celebrity, there might be a need to splurge in this department. But as an ordinary sissy, be practical. As I’m sure you’ve noticed, sissies have a lot of other things they need to spend money on.

7 BS Reasons Why a Sissy Shouldn’t Transition

MtF trans

Have you ever wondered or fantasized about transitioning into a full-time girl? Or maybe it’s more than just a fantasy. Perhaps you’ve seriously considered making the switch from male to sissified female.

Let’s be real… most sissies don’t find themselves in a situation that is transition friendly. There are unsupportive wives, other family members, friends and certainly careers that oftentimes stand staunchly in the way, effectively creating formidable road-blocks to realizing your sissy desires.

But maybe you aren’t in a relationship. You might be a student, retired or maybe work from home. Could be… you don’t have any kids, or they are grown-up and are living their own lives now.

There’s absolutely nothing standing in the way of you becoming the woman of your dreams.

Except you!

You’ve managed to come up with some solid-as-concrete reasons why transitioning can never be for you.

What if I were to suggest that that your so-called reasonable reasons for not pursuing your feminization fantasies are not valid arguments at all. That they are merely conjured-up myths-of-the-mind. Or to but it more succinctly…

Bullshit Excuses!

But if you insist on treating them as ‘eminently good reasons’ then okay, I’ll go ahead and humor you for just a second. But it is my intention to show you that all of your compelling justifications are merely just flimsy excuses.

Reason #1 – I’m Too Old

never too late

Age can be used as an excuse to not do anything. You can be too old to go back to school, have kids, get in shape, travel the world, learn to sing and, yes… even transition.

The truth is that except for maybe a very few things (like climbing Mt Everest or dunking a basketball), you’re not too old to do anything, other than that what you are telling yourself you’re too old for.

Anne Koch—her book is excellent—transitioned when she was 63 years old.

Caitlyn Jenner was 65 when she decided to make the switch. There are several women who have transitioned while in their 70’s. So if they can do it, why not you?

The cool thing is that with new knowledge and developments surrounding the anti-aging and longevity areas of study, it’s possible, with the proper mindset and dedication, to turn back the biological clock and turn the aging process on it’s head.

For a perfect example of what’s possible, take a look at Dolly Parton. She’s 75 and looks amazing!

The best time to transition was when you were younger. The next best time is now.

Reason #2 – I’m Too Tall

too tall

Both of the above mentioned transgender women are 6’2″ – 6’6″ (at least) in heels. Apparently, they didn’t allow their height to prevent them from becoming who they really are. Nor should you.

There are lot’s of six foot tall GG girls walking around out there. They don’t run away and hide in the hamper.

It’s all about attitude and effusing self-confidence. The world will accept you if you’re willing to accept yourself. You might wanna read this Reddit thread for some inspiration.

Using the “I’m too tall” excuse is more than a little lame. Don’t do it.

Reason #3 – I’m Not Pretty or Passable Enough

not pretty enough

We’d all like to be a bit better looking. But if you start comparing yourself with all the stunning trans girls out there, you’ll be perpetually disappointed.

The thing is… with hormones, facial feminization surgery, skillful makeup application and weight loss, you can become a pretty damn attractive woman.

Add fashionable and/or sexy clothes to the above mix and there’s no limit to how good you can look. Yes, MtF transition requires time, dedication, money and courage. But the finished product will be well worth it.

Reason #4 – I’m Too Muscular

too muscular

Not all TG women walk around looking delicate, weak and waif-like, as if they’re in constant need of protection. A girl with some definition and muscle tone can be quite attractive. Female fitness contestants for example, look amazing.

Also, three years of hormones and yoga will change how your body looks. Your musculature can definitely be toned down to a more feminine looking physique. Don’t let your current body build prevent you from moving forward.

Reason #5 – I’m Too Hairy

too hairy

This excuse not to transition is easy to circumvent, at least for body hair. It’s called shaving and/or IPL/laser hair removal.

News flash! cis gender women shave their legs. You can too! Personally, I use a home IPL (intense pulsed light) unit and it works really, really well. I’m now shaving my body less often and with much less hair to remove.

Admittedly, the face is a greater challenge. The only permanent hair removal method for facial hair is by undergoing electrolysis. It’s a time consuming, painful and expensive process. But it’s definitely doable.

And if you want to transition, it’s just part of the deal.

Reason #6 – I’m Bald or Losing My Hair

losing hair

It would certainly be nice to have a full head of luscious, feminine hair to call your very own. If you’re balding or thinning up top, you can change that—at a cost.

If you have enough hair that can be used as a donor area, then hair transplants are an option. If not to give 100% coverage, then enough to use as a base for anchoring hair extensions.

The other route to go would be to use either a topically applied hair regrowth product that contains minoxidil such as Rogaine or orally taking finasteride, the active ingredient in Propecia. Using both of them simultaneously can improve results dramatically.

Be aware that one of the possible side effects of taking finasteride is erectile dysfunction (along with a lowering of libido). As a sissy, this could actually work in your favor.

Then of course, there are always wigs. The preponderance of inexpensive, but also nice looking wigs now-a-days makes it so that having thinning hair, or even total baldness, is really not an issue—nor an excuse—when it comes to transitioning.

Reason #7 – Transitioning is Too Expensive

transition expense

Like divorce, transitioning is expensive. And like divorce, that’s okay… because both are well worth it. Anytime you take on a challenging and complicated endeavor, like switching genders, it’s gonna cost you.

Even for trans girls who decide to forego the hormone and/or surgery route, there’s still expenses like hair removal, voice feminization lessons, clothes and makeup to consider.

If you don’t think it’s possible to look amazing without hormones or surgery, then you might want to take a look at this girl’s profile over on FetLife. BTW, that’s her in the photo below. Just so you know, she stands six-foot-three and has a penchant for wearing nose-bleed heels.

ms divinyl

The good news is that with ever-changing attitudes regarding trans people, medical insurance companies, including Medicare, are beginning to come on board and sometimes cover FHT and even gender reassignment surgery.

If your insurance doesn’t happen to cover transition procedures, then you will have to pay out of pocket. But these costs can be saved-up for and spread out over time.

For example, you might start off with electrolysis, then move on to hormones. After that you can undergo FFS—which can be split-up into several different procedures. Breast augmentation can come next, followed up with bottom-end surgery, if you decide to go that far.

The thing is, if you want to transition badly enough, you WILL find a way to come up with the money. There is ALWAYS a way! You just have to get creative with the financing.

Stop With the Excuses Already

stop with the excuses

So, hopefully I’ve made it crystal clear that if you’re trans, or trans enough, then you really don’t have any good reasons to not transition and become the girl that you want to be. In fact, they were never actually reasons to begin with—only pathetic, pitiful excuses.

Show some sissy courage, and just do what needs to be done darling.

Are You Trans Enough?

Of course if you’re not sure if you are actually transgender, or trans enough, then you wouldn’t want to begin the transition process. To figure out if you are TG or not, you might find this article helpful: Are You a Crossdresser or Transgender?

Are You a Sissy? 10 Ways To Know For Sure

are you a sissy?

If you’ve ever wondered if you really are a sissy, or contemplated on how much sissyness is trapped inside of you, you’re not alone darling. It’s completely normal for questions such as these to pop up into your pretty little head.

Some would say that if you have to ask, then the answer is apparent. But just in case you are experiencing some gender identity confusion, the following 10 questions may help to clear things up for you.

1 – When you were a little boy (or maybe even a teenager) did you ever feel compelled to try on your mother’s, sister’s or cousin’s clothes?

This question will take you back to the roots of your sissyness. Trying to figure out why you had this overwhelming desire to enjoy the feel of soft, silky, feminine garments next to your skin is an exercise in futility.

It might have something to do with the way you were raised. Or… maybe you were just born that way.

The only thing that really matters is to not place any judgements on nor have feelings of guilt about your dress-up-desires. Society may say otherwise, but our narrow-minded culture can be kind of fucked-up in this area.

The important thing is that if you did feel inspired to put on something feminine, you get sissy bonus points for actually following through and trying on that cute little dress!

2 – Have you ever gone down on a girl immediately afterwards so that you can actually taste your cum?

eat out a girl

Sweetie, this is a seriously submissive act, and we both know that sissies are submissive by default. A true sissy loves to perform oral servitude on women—and sometimes, even men.

Sissies also fantasize about eating their own cum, so if you’ve answered the above question in the affirmative, you’re corroborating your apptitude for sissiness.

In addition, if you enjoy eating out a girl more than actually fucking her, then I believe you can take this to mean that your inner-sissy quotient is pretty damn fucking high.

C’mon, any delusional claims you may have as to being in any-way-shape-or-form an alpha male would be seriously offensive to a real man.

3 – When you see an exremely attractive women, what do you notice most; her tits and ass or her nails and heels?

tits ass nails heels

A sissy’s focus would obviously be on her nails and heels… along with her makeup, hair, fashionable clothes and jewelry.

Although a real man would be peripherally aware of these feminine attributes, his main interest would be on her body. He would want to rip all those beautiful clothes off her and fuck the shit out of this georgous woman.

A sissy, on the other hand, legitimately holds a high amount of admiration for how this feminine creature has artfully put herself together. There’s even a bit of envy on the sissy’s part of how captivating this girl looks.

Sure, a sissy would maybe like to fuck her, if she (the sissy) could get it up, but she would probably get more enjoyment out of being fabulously dressed-up herself and getting fucked. Following along with that same sissified mindset…

4 – Have you ever avoided approaching a woman even when the situation is perfect and it’s obvious that she wants to be approached?

This scenario is most often attributed to approach anxiety and being generally unconfident around women. But why are you fearful and anxious when it comes to women? Is this a problem that needs to be overcome, or is it just that you’re a spineless sissy by nature? It’s a valid question that you need to be honestly asking yourself.

It’s quite possible that your less-than-large dick (or sissy clitty) is frightened of pussy.

If, as a sissy, you don’t feel worthy enough to fuck this girl, then you will subconsciously self-sabotage any attempt to apporach her, the gorgeous goddess that she is. Maybe you would be more content to be her sissy slave instead? Just asking.

5 – Do you sometimes wear lingerie, high heels and dresses?

sissy dress up

If you do, that means that you’re a crossdresser, but not necessarily a sissy. Sissies are submissive and subservient. Their role in life is not only to look pretty, but to be obedient and have a penchant for providing pleasure.

But, if you have already started putting together your feminine wardrobe—lingerie, pretty dresses and high heels—then these other questions will help you to ascertain whether you possess the aptitude required for taking things to a different place… and become a full-fledged sissy.

6 – What do you fantasize about while masturbating?

submissive sissy

Since sissies are crossdressers that have a decidedly submissive nature to them, then this question will be an acid-like test to determine how docile and subservient you really are.

If you get off by having someone giving out orders as to what they want you to do, then you have the submissive qualities necessary for being a serious sissy. If you gain even greater enjoyment by obeying these orders, then that is further proof of your meekness.

Does being a sissy slave to a dominate woman do it for you? Would you like her to fuck you up the ass with a strapon while you moan in ecstasy? How about being kept in chastity 24/7 and serving as her cuckold slut—your primary role being to fluff up her lover?

Does being dressed up in something girly while all of this is happening make your little sissy dick twitch? We can stop right here sweetie… you’re definitely a sissy.

7 – Do you wonder what it would be like to suck on a real cock while dressed as sissy?

sissy cocksucker

Since I broached the subject of you serving as a ‘fluffer’ for your mistress, we might as well take this matter a bit further. Yeah, since most crossdressers are straight the thought of sucking on a cock might not do it for them. But as a sissy, well that’s a different story. When sissies are all dolled-up, a psychological shift takes place.

In the quest to validate her femininity, she suddenly becomes a submissive fuck toy to be used by either a woman or a man. A sissy slut is pretty much required to become a capable cocksucker.

I suggest you get out your dildo—hopefully you have one—apply some lipstick and begin a regular practice schedule. Soon enough you’ll have the opportunity to have your pretty lips wrapped around the real thing… and you won’t want to disappoint.

BTW, if you’re looking to buy a dildo, make sure you read this article first.

8 – Do you prefer to sit down to pee, even when it is not absolutely necessary?

sitting down to pee

You don’t need me to tell you this but that is boda fide, ladylike behavior.

The more important question is, why do you do feel the urge to do it? You most likely already know—it’s one relatively small, seemingly insignificant form of behavior that makes you feel like a girl.

But is it really that trivial of an act? If you haven’t yet began to flush-out your feminine feelings, maybe it’s time you do so.

9 – Do you shave any parts of your body that men typically don’t shave?

sissy shaving

I realize that many men shave their legs for sports and stuff like that. They may even shave their underarms for hygienic reasons. But if you do shave, it’s time to be totally transparent with yourself—what’s your underlying motivation? Might there be some subtle, secondary benefits you are receiving?

Do you enjoy the feel of pulling on a pair of nylon stockings over your freshly shaved legs?. Or perhaps it’s the smooth, silky feeling you experience when sliding between the sheets at night.

Let’s face it, being hairless feels oh-so feminine. Maybe it’s time to go all the way and keep your entire body shaved?

Now-a-days it’s not all that uncommon. You could get away with it if you really wanted to. Plus, every time you shave yourself smooth, it has the effect of affirming your sissyness.

10 – Do you paint your toenails?

sissy painted toenails

If you do, then you already have effeminately embraced being a sissy. If you don’t, I think it’s time to start. Not too many things will make you feel more feminine than keeping your toenails painted.

If you’re not quite ready to show them off to the world, then it’s easy enough to keep them covered-up in the winter. During the summer months, you can paint them a neutral color. There are other creative strategies—for example, I wear special yoga socks when I attend yoga classes.

Hopefully, the question “Are You a Sissy?” is now as straight forward for you to answer as it is for me. Something can be said for surrendering to who you truly are sweetie. It’s an intoxicating feeling to wake up in the morning, climb out of bed and look down.

The first thing I see is a view of a flat, feminine front—a pair of panties covering up my tucked-back sissy clitty. As my gaze moves further down, my eyes are directed to a pair of smoothly shaven legs followed up with my prettily polished toenails.

What a way to start of the day! Am I a sissy? It sure does look like it. The more important question is… are you?

Becoming the sissy of your dreams doesn’t happen overnight!

Sissification is a process. It’s a matter of taking consistent, dainty, high-heel-like-steps in order to arrive in Sissyville (maybe that could be a real place someday).

In the meantime, I wrote a popular article about Your Sissification Process. You might find it interesting.

The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto – Part 2

Note: This is Part 2 of the 3 part “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto” series. For optimal results, skipping past Part 1 – The Why, or skipping to Part 3 – The What, is NOT recommended.

If you wanted me to, I could show you how to lose 10 pounds in two weeks. Like many others, I’ve done it. There’s no special sissy science behind it. But I really wouldn’t be doing you any favors.

Yes, you would most likely lose the 10 pounds in the specified amount of time. But that doesn’t mean the excess ‘junk-in-the-trunk’ would necessarily be gone forever—it probably wouldn’t. It would be much better and waaaaay more effective if you could view losing weight from a loftier perspective.

Looking at Sissy Weight Loss as A Process

its a process

I’m confident that you’re already aware that 90% of people who lose a significant amount of weight—including sissies such as yourself—gain it all back (and then some) within a few months. For a man, that’s no big deal… just go out and buy some bigger pants.

For a girl like you that would be an unmitigated disaster. All those beautiful, and possibly expensive, clothes that you could no longer fit into would be a devastating turn of events. We don’t want you to experience any of that.

If you want to be a slim and sexy sissy, for the remainder of your feminine life, then you will want to approach your weight loss journey with more of a long term mindset. This unique program talks about a different way to eat. It’s called the Custom Keto Diet. It might be just what you’re looking for.

Like achieving anything else in life, losing weight permanently comes down to a process. And that process begins with becoming aware of what’s going on inside of your beautiful brain.

Who Do You Think You Are?

who are you

Have you ever wondered why no matter what size people happen to be, fat or skinny—or somewhere in between, most of the population’s weight doesn’t really change all that much?

Sure, there might be normal fluctuations of a few pounds throughout the week or month, but for the majority of people, unless they’re crash dieting or on a binge-eating spree at the local smorgasbord, their weight is pretty much stabilized.

The reason for this is that we all have an internal ‘weight thermostat’ that is set to—more-or-less—accurately reflect what we believe, at a subconscious level, what we think we’re supposed to weigh.

Just like the thermostat in your home which keeps your house at a constant temperature—within a couple of degrees anyway—your weight thermostat functions in the same way.

But unlike the t-stat in your home, where you can easily set it to any temperature you like, the setting on your internal weight thermostat is not so easy to change. That’s because it’s set by your internal self image.

What your body looks like—including what you weigh, is, at the most basic of levels, what you believe to be true about yourself. Since we’re not always consciously aware of our inner-most thoughts and beliefs, this concept can get a bit tricky.

You have to become self-aware enough to realize that your underlying beliefs about yourself are stealthily responsible for what your internal weight thermostat is currently set to.

You can only be, and therefore have, what you truly believe you deserve. That’s true for every part of your life, including your weight. This psychological concept explains why people have such a difficult time changing their life circumstances.

It’s damn daunting to change what you believe about yourself at the sub-conscious level. That’s why a high percentage of lottery winners find themselves broke within two years. It’s the same reason why someone who loses a significant amount of weight in a relatively short period of time, gains it all back not too long afterwards.

Although it’s incredibly difficult to re-set your internal weight t-stat and change what you believe about how your body should look overnight, it’s entirely doable using a more methodical, systematic approach.

You can use a technique to lose weight by taking several short, sissy-like steps instead of attempting to accomplish it with a single, ginormous quantum leap (aka, crash dieting).

The Concept of Weight Compartments

weight loss compartments

The idea behind this concept is to divide things up into weight compartments of 10 pounds each and then methodically move down into a different weight compartment—one compartment at a time—over and extended period of time.

Right now your weight falls within a certain ‘weight compartment’. It might be 180-190 or maybe 150-160. Whatever your weight compartment happens to be right now doesn’t really matter—simply identify where it’s at—nothing more and nothing less.

What’s critically important here is to accept your current weight compartment without beating yourself up about it. Try looking at your present weight with a neutral, detached frame of mind. I’m not saying you have to like what you weigh, just accept your weight, minus any nasty judgments.

People over-eat for a myriad of reasons, most of them being emotional or psychological. Although it may be important, at some point, to understand what these reasons are… we really don’t have time to explore them right now.

What is important to realize is that by harboring negative emotions about your current weight, will only make it more difficult for you to move down to a lower weight compartment. Saying to yourself something like “I’m a fat-ass sissy”, only serves to surround your current weight compartment with an emotional charge which tends to make it more real—locking it into place.

Viewing your present weight in an honest and unbiased manner removes all the drama from the situation, helping you to see the truth—that what you currently weigh is merely a temporary condition rather than a permanent part of your life. Embracing this perspective makes losing weight much less of a struggle.

A Real-Life Example of Sissy Weight Loss

Please allow me to share how using this concept of weight compartments has worked really well for me over the past three years. My drivers license lists my weight at 160 pounds or 72.5 kilos. While living in that compartment, I would typically weigh somewhere between 160 and 165 pounds; my weight range compartment being 160-169 pounds (72.5 to 77 kilos).

When my desire to be a muscular macho-man began to waver, my weight dropped down and leveled off to 155 pounds. My new weight compartment was now 150-159 pounds. I had traded my old 160 pound body into a slightly slimmer 155 pound version. This was now my new identity—my new belief— of what I should now weigh.

Of course I decided to make some lifestyle changes in order to transition to this lower weight-class. I was drinking less beer and eating healthier, but it was natural and easy for me because this is how a 155 pound person lives their lives. I was satisfied to be in this newer weight compartment for around 5 years. It had become my new ‘normal’.

As more of my sissy nature began to surface, I decided I wanted a slimmer, sexier and more feminine looking body. Being in the 150’s wasn’t doing it for me any longer. Wanting to drop down into the 140-149 weight compartment was a BIG deal for me!

As I was moving in that skinnier direction, I wasn’t able to consistently stay there. I fluctuated between 147 and 152 pounds over the course of a year or so. Psychologically, I didn’t yet see myself as a person who weighed-in at 140 something.

In other words, my long-held beliefs concerning my weight were not in alignment with my desires.

But after I was able to spend a greater percentage of my time at 147 pounds, my self-image—my internal weight thermostat—eventually became more congruent with my sissy weight loss aspirations.

Soon I had left the 150’s in the dust and took up semi-permanent residency in the 140-149 weight compartment. I say semi, not because I was ever going back up to a more manly 150 pound weight range… on the contrary, I was setting my sissy sights much lower. Could it be possible for me to get into the 130’s?

As I mentioned before, my driver’s license indicated that I weighed 160 pounds. My height was listed as a proportionate 5′ 9″. But I was never legitimately that tall; closer to 68 inches in reality. Since guys usually want to be taller so I fudged my height up.

Losing my desire to be a man was giving me a different perspective on height. Most girls don’t want to be tall. I actually stand at 67.5 inches or 171.5 cm. I now round that down to a more feminine 67 inches.

Of course what I’m doing here is using my reduced height to rationalize a lower weight. What sounds sexier… 5′ 7″ and 140 something or 5′ 7″ and 130 something? What began as a pretty much unobtainable dream/desire to weigh 137 pounds has turned into a reality for me.

As I write these words, I weighed myself this morning at 135 pounds—with my panties on! I can safely say that I am now a permanent sissified citizen of the 130-139 weight club. Yep, that’s the real me below.

Sissy Weight Loss
My Sissy Weight Loss Journey

This is a break-down of how the time-frame transpired. I keep a spreadsheet of my weight (I’m such a sissy nerd):

For most of 2016 I weighed somewhere in the 150’s. I got a brief glimpse of the 140’s towards the end of that year.

2017 saw me in the upper 140 pound range. 2018 was more of the same but I broke through to 139 at the very end of that year. For 2019 I’ve been consistently in the mid-to-high 130 pound range.

It was imperative that I spent a significant amount of time in each weight compartment so as to allow my self image to ‘catch-up’ with my new, lower weight.

It took me over 3 years to go from 155 pounds to 135 pounds. Yes, I could have lost that 20 pounds in less than three months if I had really wanted to. But, like I stated earlier in this article, the weight wouldn’t have stayed off.

Three months just isn’t enough time to change your deeply held beliefs about who you are. After 20 pounds of relatively rapid weight loss, I still would have psychologically been a 155 pound person—and would have acted accordingly in putting the weight back on.

It would have been a classic case of subtle-self-sabotage at its best.

Back in 2016 my internal weight thermostat was set to reflect something between a more-or-less 155 pound macho male and a wanna-be sissy. Now I identify as a 135 pound serious sissy—and a slim and sexy one at that.

The past three years has been an identity-changing process; and it was the perfect time-frame for me to do it in. Is it possible that you could change your identity, weight-wise, in a shorter amount of time? Maybe so.

Creating a New Identity For Yourself

Sissy Weight Loss

As a sissy, you can weigh whatever you want. You don’t have to be a skinny-assed sissy… but if that’s your desire—and it might be since you’re reading this article—then you will, over time, need to change your identity by re-setting your internal weight thermostat.

It’s neither necessary nor advisable to try to hasten the process. It takes some time. You just need to patiently progress into your new you.

  • Babies naturally go from crawlers to walkers
  • Self-made billionaires morph from being broke to rich
  • Ugly crossdressers transform into transgender beauties
  • Sissies progress from masculine to more feminine… and maybe even from heavier to lighter

Improving your life in any way is a matter of embarking on a process that entails constant and consistent progress. During this journey you are methodically morphing into something different… creating a completely new identity for yourself.

You really can’t short-circuit this identity-changing process. Your desires must be congruent with your current beliefs about yourself, otherwise you’ll experience what is called ‘cognitive dissonance’ and any changes just aren’t gonna stick. You can’t fake a new identity—it’s gotta be real.

If you’re willing to embrace this WAY of losing weight and not succumb to the “I want it all—and I want it now” attitude so prevalent in our impatient culture, then you might be interested in what physical actions you need to take in order to permanently lose weight.

Are You Ready For The “WHAT”?

the what

As a former compulsively obsessed runner—turned certified personal trainer—turned professional dieter—turned skinny sissy, I have been able to zero in on the most effective and healthiest methods to lose weight.

That’s what Part 3 – The WHAT of the “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto” is all about.

Now that you have this crucial ‘mindset’ part of MtF weight loss down, then the actual actions you need to take become an after-thought… just an ongoing part of this sissy weight loss process.

It’s now time to set your sights on the next lower weight compartment and move on to the WHAT.

A Sissy Hourglass Figure?

If you’re interested in achieving that coveted—and much admired—hourglass figure, you may want to check out my article: The Sissy Feminizing Workout For an Hourglass Figure.