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The Sissy Skin Care Routine

sissy skin care routine

Biologically born males turned sissies—like you and me—have a nasty history of neglecting the skin on our faces. Growing up, it was considered neither masculine nor necessary to spend time on something that was not really all that important.

Well, things are changing for many men in that regard, especially as they grow older. And for us sissies, a sissy skin care routine is not only necessary but mandatory.

Genetic girls have always been keenly aware of how important it is to pamper their skin. They realize that although makeup can cover up many imperfections, beginning with a clean canvas, will allow makeup application to perform it’s beautification magic even better.

It’s time for sissies to follow suit and get on the skin care routine beauty bandwagon that has been more-or-less ignored by many of us for so long. A girl’s face is her most prized asset and it needs to be pampered accordingly.

Beautiful Skin – From the Inside-Out

beauty inside out

Before I delve into how a sissy should take care of her skin on the outside, it’s good to be aware that the skin on your face is, first of all, an organ. Much of it’s overall health and suppleness depends on what’s going on inside of your body.

Smoking, excessive alcohol consumption, a shitty diet and eschewing exercise will work to undermine your skin from the inside-out. Not only the skin on your face, but all over your body. You most likely already know this but it can be good to state the obvious sometimes.

That being said, this article is all about what a sissy such as yourself can do to the outside of your face to have it looking as smooth and supple as possible. Basic sissy skin care can be divided into five distinct areas.


skin cleansing

Many sissies don’t understand the importance of washing their face at night before going to bed. During the day your face is bombarded with pollutants, free radicals, dust, bacteria and collagen-destroying UVA rays.

It’s imperative to get all of that crap off of your face—EVERY DAY! Many GG skin care routines have them washing their face in the morning too. But if once is enough for you, then make sure to do it at night.

Use a specialized facial cleanser, not soap. Facial cleansers are gentler on the skin and will not overly dry it out. Plus, they have hydrating ingredients—like Micellar Water—that will help to hydrate the skin. Regular soap will work to dry your face out way too much.


skin moisturizer

Moisturizing is the next compulsory step in the sissy skin care routine. Aging, the wind, the sun: they all conspire to dry out your face, making it look less-than-youthful. Applying moisturizer twice per day will help to replenish the water content of the skin, combating the damage that the everyday environment can cause.

If you wear makeup, then a lighter moisturizer in the morning is appropriate as it will not compromise your foundation. If you shave, then moisturizing afterwards will help to negate the adverse effects that shaving can have on your face.

In the evening, you can use a thicker moisturizing cream. It’s always better to moisturize while your face is still a bit damp. That will help to lock-in the moisture that is already present on the skin.

When purchasing moisturizing creme, look for ingredients that stimulate the production of collagen. Collagen is a protein that provides structural support to the skin. It creates a matrix-like web of fibers that serve to hold everything together.

As you age, collagen breaks down, causing wrinkles and sagging skin. You want a moisturizing cream that will help to boost collagen production. Look for a product that contains one or more of these collagen promoting ingredients:

  • Vitamin C
  • Retinol (Vitamin A)
  • Hyaluronic Acid
  • Peptides
  • AHA or alpha-hydroxy-acids
  • Aloe Vera

Cleansing and moisturizing are the two vital steps that form the cornerstone of any sissy’s skin care routine. The next three are—if not vital—essential.



The top layer of your skin (epidermis) is made up of four to five sub-layers. As the skin cells of the outer-most layer age and become damaged, they naturally shed away; every three weeks or so. Sometimes you may want to remove that dying superficial layer more often than that. That’s where exfoliating scrubs come into play. Scrubbing will give your face a brand new layer of skin to work with.

In essence, exfoliating scrubs contain micro-scrubbing abrasive beads that work sort of like a household cleanser—but not nearly as caustic. Since, by their very nature, these scrubs are not that gentle, you should exfoliate once or twice per week at most.

Don’t believe that you should use them everyday as the directions might suggest on the back of the bottle. That’s just the marketing department doing its job to get you to use more of their product (wash-rinse-repeat).

Exfoliating on a weekly basis will help to:

  • Deep clean your face
  • Give a healthy, shiny glow to your skin
  • Prevent clogged-up pores
  • Smooth rough patches of skin
  • Stimulate collagen production (depending on the ingredients)

There are many, many types of scrubs available on the market. You’ll have to do your own diligent research as to each one’s effectiveness. Be sure to always wet your face before scrubbing.



There is a common misconception that a facemask is used to exfoliate. Although there are exfoliating masks you can buy, that’s not what a mask is primarily intended to do. A beauty facemask is typically a cream that you apply to your face and leave on for 5 or 10 minutes before washing it off.

Like an exfoliating scrub, a mask, depending on the specific ingredients, should only be used a couple of times per week. Choosing between the different varieties of face masks can be overwhelming. Below are the four main types:

  1. Cream masks
  2. Clay and mud masks
  3. Charcoal masks
  4. Paper masks (popular in Asia)

The main purpose of a beauty facemask is to give the skin a temporary—but intense—dose of additives that will help achieve:

  • Skin hydration
  • Reduce oiliness
  • Improve circulation
  • A smoothing of fine lines
  • Reduce inflammation

The idea is to match the facemask to your skin situation—dry, oily, damaged, aged, etc. Many sissies, and GG alike, underrate how important regular use of a facemask can be to a beautifying skin care routine.

Eye Cream

eye cream

At first glance, eye cream may seem like a not-so-necessary, even extravagant part of the skin care process. But when you take into account under eye puffiness (bags), dark circles, thin lines and wrinkles that can appear around and under the eyes, it’s really not.

An eye cream’s basic job is hydration. They contain moisturizing ingredients specifically formulated for hydrating the thinner, more delicate skin surrounding the eye. There are fewer oil glands under the eye which contributes to dryer skin conditions in that region.

That being said, the truth is that eye creams are not all that effective in eliminating bags and dark circles. However, when it comes to reducing fine lines and wrinkles—due to the loss of collagen—eye creams can yield impressive results. Which means if you’re an older sissy, a good eye cream could, and probably should, be part of your sissy skin care routine.

Eye cream ingredients to look for:

  • Hyaluronic acid or glycerin
  • Emollients such as ceramides and fatty acids
  • Mineral oil
  • Beeswax
  • Retinol (promotes collagen production)
  • Peptides (promotes collagen production)
  • Caffeine (temporary hack for under eye puffiness)

While eye creams have their limitations when it comes to dark circles and bags, a cold, green tea compress can temporarily reduce under eye puffiness as both the caffeine and cold restrict blood flow to the under-eye area.

If you do decide to use an eye cream as part of your skin care routine, the general consensus is to apply it at night. Make sure to dab on the cream; don’t rub it in.

A Sissy Skin Care Routine That Will Work for You

For effective skin care with results that are noticeable, you will need to establish a daily routine. I prefer once-per-day, in the evening.

Beware of sophisticated marketing agendas. The face cream industry is huge, with ginormous marketing budgets designed to get you to spend more money on a perceived miracle product. You absolutely do not need to buy expensive products for effective skin care.

As a celebrity, there might be a need to splurge in this department. But as an ordinary sissy, be practical. As I’m sure you’ve noticed, sissies have a lot of other things they need to spend money on.

The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto – Part 1

sissy weight loss

Note: This is Part 1 of the 3 part “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto” series. For optimal results, reading Part 2 – The Way or Part 3 – The What out of order is NOT recommended.

Looking your best is important to all girls—especially sissies—and there are not too many feminizing endeavors that can make you look better than losing those extra pounds. Sure, your makeup is ultra important, but being slim and sexy is certainly near the top of many of, if not most of, a sissy’s ‘I-want-to-be’ list.

Being a skinny sissy will allow you to look better in (and out of) clothes. On top of that, becoming svelte will make you:

  • more passable
  • younger looking
  • desirable
  • able to find a partner easier
  • feel more confident
  • healthier (so you can live a longer sissy life)

Concentrate On What You Can Control – Sissy Weight Loss

what you can control

The hard truth is that there are some things that are out of your control in your quest to become the best sissy you can be. For example, there is only so much a great makeup job can do to turn a masculine face with a square jaw into something with more feminine lines. Taking hormones and/or undergoing feminizing facial surgery are expensive procedures.

If you’re content with being a part-time, crossdressing sissy, then you wouldn’t be interested in those types of permanent MtF transformation interventions anyway.

Growing out your hair and keeping your nails long and painted might not work well at your job or around family and friends. Some sissies won’t even keep their bodies free from hair because of real or imagined social ramifications.

As a personal example, because of my chronological age, I have drooping eyelids… and I’m not contemplating surgery for them anytime soon. Combined with my less-than-stellar makeup skills—I don’t apply makeup everyday—my fem-face doesn’t always look super great.

Since I don’t have total control over my age and eyelids, I’ve made the decision to focus on my body. Although I’m not super-passable by any means, because of my relatively slim shape (5’7″ – 133 lbs), I look pretty damn good in clothes when I go out en femme. I’ve made my girlish figure my strength to compensate for the areas that I don’t have much, if any, control over.

I know as well as any sissy that there are just way too many feminizing things a sissy can’t, doesn’t want to, or is simply unwilling to do on a consistent basis to accentuate the sissification process.

But losing weight really shouldn’t be one of them! If you’ve struggled with weight loss in the past, then this controversial eating program might be just what you’re looking for.

apply makeup

Although getting good with makeup certainly quailifies as being something you can control, it’s relatively expensive to purchase and takes a ton of time and effort to become proficient at it.

Losing weight will actually save you money (eat less food) and save you time (fewer and shorter meal times). And once you’ve mastered the art of skinniness, you will be able to shop for all the skinny jeans and sexy dresses you want without worrying about not being able to fit into them three months down the road.

Leveraging Your Sissy Assets

I don’t know about you but being a sissy can leave me quite confused at times. One thing I’ve noticed is that when I’m feeling psychologically ‘all-in’ as a girl, I’m much more motivated to do girly things… like lose weight.

So instead of focusing on feelings such as embarrassment, dysphoria or shame, I’ve decided to embrace my sissyness and use it as an asset to enhance my overall life.

Being slim and trim improves your life as either a man or a woman—depending on who you want to present yourself as on any given day. A skinny sissy makes for an overall healthier and happier person.

I encourage you to use your sissiness as a springboard to a better life. Focusing on your femininity can be so much fun. It’s damn sexy to shave a slim and toned body leaving it silky smooth.

Whatever your sissy assets happen to be, put your best sissy foot forward and use them to your full advantage. Fostering feminine qualities like beauty, sensitivity and sexiness can bring so much peace and contentment into your life. Being slim and trim can set the tone for more femininity to follow.

The Why, The Way, The What

the why

This Part 1 of “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto” has zeroed in on the WHY of sissy weight loss. After reading this, it shouldn’t be difficult for you to clearly see why a sissy’s focus should be on losing those extra pounds.

There’s absolutely nothing else you can do—something that’s entirely under your control—that will enhance your sissyness more than having a slim, sexy body.

If you’re struggling to lose weight, you already know that you’re not alone. Being a slim and sexy sissy doesn’t have to be all about sacrifice, struggle and deprivation. Although it’s definitely not easy at first, especially if you don’t know about changing how you identify with your body, it is entirely doable.

Most people, including sissies, focus their energies on the methodology of losing weight… the different diets, exercise programs, etc. That part is the WHAT of how to permanently lose weight and I thoroughly cover the best weight loss methods that I’ve found in Part 3 of this manifesto.

Naturally, that’s the part that everyone wants to read first. I’m here to tell you that by beginning with the WHAT is completely ass-backwards. It would be like putting the cart in front of Cinderella’s mice.

Do you ever wonder why such a small percentage of people who try, manage to ever lose a significant amount of weight—and even if they do—90% of them inexplicably put it all back on (and then some) within a few months?

It’s because they first don’t understand their WHY of losing weight. As a sissy, you now know your WHY by reading this first part. But even more importantly, they aren’t aware of the underlying but extremely essential WAY of losing weight.

The WAY to lose weight is to gain an understanding of the unseen forces that are currently controlling how much you currently weigh. You’re probably not even aware that they exist.

This very important ‘WAY’ is what I talk about in Part 2 of “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto”. Being aware of what’s going on inside of your pretty little sissy head MUST come before implementing the WHAT, the specific weight loss methods.

Taking a short-cut by going directly to Part 3 will, more-or-less, ensure that you will never get that sexy, sissy body of your dreams.

Now that you know your WHY I hope you are inspired to continue to Part 2… the WAY to sissy weight loss.

A Sissy Hourglass Figure?

If you’re interested in achieving that coveted—and much admired—hourglass figure, you may want to check out my article: The Sissy Feminizing Workout For an Hourglass Figure.