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The Sissy Skin Care Routine

sissy skin care routine

Biologically born males turned sissies—like you and me—have a nasty history of neglecting the skin on our faces. Growing up, it was considered neither masculine nor necessary to spend time on something that was not really all that important.

Well, things are changing for many men in that regard, especially as they grow older. And for us sissies, a sissy skin care routine is not only necessary but mandatory.

Genetic girls have always been keenly aware of how important it is to pamper their skin. They realize that although makeup can cover up many imperfections, beginning with a clean canvas, will allow makeup application to perform it’s beautification magic even better.

It’s time for sissies to follow suit and get on the skin care routine beauty bandwagon that has been more-or-less ignored by many of us for so long. A girl’s face is her most prized asset and it needs to be pampered accordingly.

Beautiful Skin – From the Inside-Out

beauty inside out

Before I delve into how a sissy should take care of her skin on the outside, it’s good to be aware that the skin on your face is, first of all, an organ. Much of it’s overall health and suppleness depends on what’s going on inside of your body.

Smoking, excessive alcohol consumption, a shitty diet and eschewing exercise will work to undermine your skin from the inside-out. Not only the skin on your face, but all over your body. You most likely already know this but it can be good to state the obvious sometimes.

That being said, this article is all about what a sissy such as yourself can do to the outside of your face to have it looking as smooth and supple as possible. Basic sissy skin care can be divided into five distinct areas.


skin cleansing

Many sissies don’t understand the importance of washing their face at night before going to bed. During the day your face is bombarded with pollutants, free radicals, dust, bacteria and collagen-destroying UVA rays.

It’s imperative to get all of that crap off of your face—EVERY DAY! Many GG skin care routines have them washing their face in the morning too. But if once is enough for you, then make sure to do it at night.

Use a specialized facial cleanser, not soap. Facial cleansers are gentler on the skin and will not overly dry it out. Plus, they have hydrating ingredients—like Micellar Water—that will help to hydrate the skin. Regular soap will work to dry your face out way too much.


skin moisturizer

Moisturizing is the next compulsory step in the sissy skin care routine. Aging, the wind, the sun: they all conspire to dry out your face, making it look less-than-youthful. Applying moisturizer twice per day will help to replenish the water content of the skin, combating the damage that the everyday environment can cause.

If you wear makeup, then a lighter moisturizer in the morning is appropriate as it will not compromise your foundation. If you shave, then moisturizing afterwards will help to negate the adverse effects that shaving can have on your face.

In the evening, you can use a thicker moisturizing cream. It’s always better to moisturize while your face is still a bit damp. That will help to lock-in the moisture that is already present on the skin.

When purchasing moisturizing creme, look for ingredients that stimulate the production of collagen. Collagen is a protein that provides structural support to the skin. It creates a matrix-like web of fibers that serve to hold everything together.

As you age, collagen breaks down, causing wrinkles and sagging skin. You want a moisturizing cream that will help to boost collagen production. Look for a product that contains one or more of these collagen promoting ingredients:

  • Vitamin C
  • Retinol (Vitamin A)
  • Hyaluronic Acid
  • Peptides
  • AHA or alpha-hydroxy-acids
  • Aloe Vera

Cleansing and moisturizing are the two vital steps that form the cornerstone of any sissy’s skin care routine. The next three are—if not vital—essential.



The top layer of your skin (epidermis) is made up of four to five sub-layers. As the skin cells of the outer-most layer age and become damaged, they naturally shed away; every three weeks or so. Sometimes you may want to remove that dying superficial layer more often than that. That’s where exfoliating scrubs come into play. Scrubbing will give your face a brand new layer of skin to work with.

In essence, exfoliating scrubs contain micro-scrubbing abrasive beads that work sort of like a household cleanser—but not nearly as caustic. Since, by their very nature, these scrubs are not that gentle, you should exfoliate once or twice per week at most.

Don’t believe that you should use them everyday as the directions might suggest on the back of the bottle. That’s just the marketing department doing its job to get you to use more of their product (wash-rinse-repeat).

Exfoliating on a weekly basis will help to:

  • Deep clean your face
  • Give a healthy, shiny glow to your skin
  • Prevent clogged-up pores
  • Smooth rough patches of skin
  • Stimulate collagen production (depending on the ingredients)

There are many, many types of scrubs available on the market. You’ll have to do your own diligent research as to each one’s effectiveness. Be sure to always wet your face before scrubbing.



There is a common misconception that a facemask is used to exfoliate. Although there are exfoliating masks you can buy, that’s not what a mask is primarily intended to do. A beauty facemask is typically a cream that you apply to your face and leave on for 5 or 10 minutes before washing it off.

Like an exfoliating scrub, a mask, depending on the specific ingredients, should only be used a couple of times per week. Choosing between the different varieties of face masks can be overwhelming. Below are the four main types:

  1. Cream masks
  2. Clay and mud masks
  3. Charcoal masks
  4. Paper masks (popular in Asia)

The main purpose of a beauty facemask is to give the skin a temporary—but intense—dose of additives that will help achieve:

  • Skin hydration
  • Reduce oiliness
  • Improve circulation
  • A smoothing of fine lines
  • Reduce inflammation

The idea is to match the facemask to your skin situation—dry, oily, damaged, aged, etc. Many sissies, and GG alike, underrate how important regular use of a facemask can be to a beautifying skin care routine.

Eye Cream

eye cream

At first glance, eye cream may seem like a not-so-necessary, even extravagant part of the skin care process. But when you take into account under eye puffiness (bags), dark circles, thin lines and wrinkles that can appear around and under the eyes, it’s really not.

An eye cream’s basic job is hydration. They contain moisturizing ingredients specifically formulated for hydrating the thinner, more delicate skin surrounding the eye. There are fewer oil glands under the eye which contributes to dryer skin conditions in that region.

That being said, the truth is that eye creams are not all that effective in eliminating bags and dark circles. However, when it comes to reducing fine lines and wrinkles—due to the loss of collagen—eye creams can yield impressive results. Which means if you’re an older sissy, a good eye cream could, and probably should, be part of your sissy skin care routine.

Eye cream ingredients to look for:

  • Hyaluronic acid or glycerin
  • Emollients such as ceramides and fatty acids
  • Mineral oil
  • Beeswax
  • Retinol (promotes collagen production)
  • Peptides (promotes collagen production)
  • Caffeine (temporary hack for under eye puffiness)

While eye creams have their limitations when it comes to dark circles and bags, a cold, green tea compress can temporarily reduce under eye puffiness as both the caffeine and cold restrict blood flow to the under-eye area.

If you do decide to use an eye cream as part of your skin care routine, the general consensus is to apply it at night. Make sure to dab on the cream; don’t rub it in.

A Sissy Skin Care Routine That Will Work for You

For effective skin care with results that are noticeable, you will need to establish a daily routine. I prefer once-per-day, in the evening.

Beware of sophisticated marketing agendas. The face cream industry is huge, with ginormous marketing budgets designed to get you to spend more money on a perceived miracle product. You absolutely do not need to buy expensive products for effective skin care.

As a celebrity, there might be a need to splurge in this department. But as an ordinary sissy, be practical. As I’m sure you’ve noticed, sissies have a lot of other things they need to spend money on.

7 BS Reasons Why a Sissy Shouldn’t Transition

MtF trans

Have you ever wondered or fantasized about transitioning into a full-time girl? Or maybe it’s more than just a fantasy. Perhaps you’ve seriously considered making the switch from male to sissified female.

Let’s be real… most sissies don’t find themselves in a situation that is transition friendly. There are unsupportive wives, other family members, friends and certainly careers that oftentimes stand staunchly in the way, effectively creating formidable road-blocks to realizing your sissy desires.

But maybe you aren’t in a relationship. You might be a student, retired or maybe work from home. Could be… you don’t have any kids, or they are grown-up and are living their own lives now.

There’s absolutely nothing standing in the way of you becoming the woman of your dreams.

Except you!

You’ve managed to come up with some solid-as-concrete reasons why transitioning can never be for you.

What if I were to suggest that that your so-called reasonable reasons for not pursuing your feminization fantasies are not valid arguments at all. That they are merely conjured-up myths-of-the-mind. Or to but it more succinctly…

Bullshit Excuses!

But if you insist on treating them as ‘eminently good reasons’ then okay, I’ll go ahead and humor you for just a second. But it is my intention to show you that all of your compelling justifications are merely just flimsy excuses.

Reason #1 – I’m Too Old

never too late

Age can be used as an excuse to not do anything. You can be too old to go back to school, have kids, get in shape, travel the world, learn to sing and, yes… even transition.

The truth is that except for maybe a very few things (like climbing Mt Everest or dunking a basketball), you’re not too old to do anything, other than that what you are telling yourself you’re too old for.

Anne Koch—her book is excellent—transitioned when she was 63 years old.

Caitlyn Jenner was 65 when she decided to make the switch. There are several women who have transitioned while in their 70’s. So if they can do it, why not you?

The cool thing is that with new knowledge and developments surrounding the anti-aging and longevity areas of study, it’s possible, with the proper mindset and dedication, to turn back the biological clock and turn the aging process on it’s head.

For a perfect example of what’s possible, take a look at Dolly Parton. She’s 75 and looks amazing!

The best time to transition was when you were younger. The next best time is now.

Reason #2 – I’m Too Tall

too tall

Both of the above mentioned transgender women are 6’2″ – 6’6″ (at least) in heels. Apparently, they didn’t allow their height to prevent them from becoming who they really are. Nor should you.

There are lot’s of six foot tall GG girls walking around out there. They don’t run away and hide in the hamper.

It’s all about attitude and effusing self-confidence. The world will accept you if you’re willing to accept yourself. You might wanna read this Reddit thread for some inspiration.

Using the “I’m too tall” excuse is more than a little lame. Don’t do it.

Reason #3 – I’m Not Pretty or Passable Enough

not pretty enough

We’d all like to be a bit better looking. But if you start comparing yourself with all the stunning trans girls out there, you’ll be perpetually disappointed.

The thing is… with hormones, facial feminization surgery, skillful makeup application and weight loss, you can become a pretty damn attractive woman.

Add fashionable and/or sexy clothes to the above mix and there’s no limit to how good you can look. Yes, MtF transition requires time, dedication, money and courage. But the finished product will be well worth it.

Reason #4 – I’m Too Muscular

too muscular

Not all TG women walk around looking delicate, weak and waif-like, as if they’re in constant need of protection. A girl with some definition and muscle tone can be quite attractive. Female fitness contestants for example, look amazing.

Also, three years of hormones and yoga will change how your body looks. Your musculature can definitely be toned down to a more feminine looking physique. Don’t let your current body build prevent you from moving forward.

Reason #5 – I’m Too Hairy

too hairy

This excuse not to transition is easy to circumvent, at least for body hair. It’s called shaving and/or IPL/laser hair removal.

News flash! cis gender women shave their legs. You can too! Personally, I use a home IPL (intense pulsed light) unit and it works really, really well. I’m now shaving my body less often and with much less hair to remove.

Admittedly, the face is a greater challenge. The only permanent hair removal method for facial hair is by undergoing electrolysis. It’s a time consuming, painful and expensive process. But it’s definitely doable.

And if you want to transition, it’s just part of the deal.

Reason #6 – I’m Bald or Losing My Hair

losing hair

It would certainly be nice to have a full head of luscious, feminine hair to call your very own. If you’re balding or thinning up top, you can change that—at a cost.

If you have enough hair that can be used as a donor area, then hair transplants are an option. If not to give 100% coverage, then enough to use as a base for anchoring hair extensions.

The other route to go would be to use either a topically applied hair regrowth product that contains minoxidil such as Rogaine or orally taking finasteride, the active ingredient in Propecia. Using both of them simultaneously can improve results dramatically.

Be aware that one of the possible side effects of taking finasteride is erectile dysfunction (along with a lowering of libido). As a sissy, this could actually work in your favor.

Then of course, there are always wigs. The preponderance of inexpensive, but also nice looking wigs now-a-days makes it so that having thinning hair, or even total baldness, is really not an issue—nor an excuse—when it comes to transitioning.

Reason #7 – Transitioning is Too Expensive

transition expense

Like divorce, transitioning is expensive. And like divorce, that’s okay… because both are well worth it. Anytime you take on a challenging and complicated endeavor, like switching genders, it’s gonna cost you.

Even for trans girls who decide to forego the hormone and/or surgery route, there’s still expenses like hair removal, voice feminization lessons, clothes and makeup to consider.

If you don’t think it’s possible to look amazing without hormones or surgery, then you might want to take a look at this girl’s profile over on FetLife. BTW, that’s her in the photo below. Just so you know, she stands six-foot-three and has a penchant for wearing nose-bleed heels.

ms divinyl

The good news is that with ever-changing attitudes regarding trans people, medical insurance companies, including Medicare, are beginning to come on board and sometimes cover FHT and even gender reassignment surgery.

If your insurance doesn’t happen to cover transition procedures, then you will have to pay out of pocket. But these costs can be saved-up for and spread out over time.

For example, you might start off with electrolysis, then move on to hormones. After that you can undergo FFS—which can be split-up into several different procedures. Breast augmentation can come next, followed up with bottom-end surgery, if you decide to go that far.

The thing is, if you want to transition badly enough, you WILL find a way to come up with the money. There is ALWAYS a way! You just have to get creative with the financing.

Stop With the Excuses Already

stop with the excuses

So, hopefully I’ve made it crystal clear that if you’re trans, or trans enough, then you really don’t have any good reasons to not transition and become the girl that you want to be. In fact, they were never actually reasons to begin with—only pathetic, pitiful excuses.

Show some sissy courage, and just do what needs to be done darling.

Are You Trans Enough?

Of course if you’re not sure if you are actually transgender, or trans enough, then you wouldn’t want to begin the transition process. To figure out if you are TG or not, you might find this article helpful: Are You a Crossdresser or Transgender?

Sissy Lingerie On the Cheap

sissy lingerie

It can be said that sexy lingerie to a sissy is like whipped cream to strawberry shortcake. A sissy without at least one matching bra and panty set would be like an Eskimo without an igloo. The truth is that sissies and lingerie go together like… okay, okay, enough of the mediocre metaphors.

Seriously, lingerie is very close to the top of the list of ‘must have’ feminine attire as a sissy begins to accumulate a feminine wardrobe. One problem is that lingerie, like most other women’s clothing, can be expensive for a girl just starting out on her sissification adventure.

Enterprising merchants have capitalized on the burgeoning sissy market so you will not find it difficult to come across several places online where you can buy stunning sissy lingerie. There are two main ways to go:

  • Regular women’s lingerie
  • Specialty sissy lingerie

Initially, you may be inclined to look past genetic girl’s feminine undergarments since most every sissy is painfully aware that girls are built differently than boys. Women’s clothes, in general, are obviously not designed to fit a biological-born-male properly. But remember, we’re not talking regular women’s clothing here—were interested in lingerie for sissies at the moment.

The big difference between the two being that bras, panties, baby dolls, nylons and garter belts are, for the most part, smooth and stretchy. Their more-or-less elastic qualities will likely conform to your sissy body—whatever shape it’s in—just fine. The advantages of choosing regular women’s lingerie over specialized sissy lingerie are:

  • Greater availability
  • Lower prices
  • You’ll feel more feminine wearing lingerie designed specifically for females

Of course there will be more bras and panties to choose from simply because there are a greater number of real girls compared to us sissies. A specialized sissy store caters to the exclusivity factor which, because of the perceived greater value, leads to sissy lingerie prices rising faster than a homesick angel.

There is certainly a case to be made for buying other types of sissy things at a store that caters specifically to sissies but, when it comes to sissy lingerie, not really so much.

What about the so-called sissy type of panties that are designed with a pouch or extra material so as to accommodate the presence of male junk. To me, that’s missing the whole point of sissification.

Proper feminization necessitates showing a flat, feminine front to the world, which means tucking your sissy clitty back between your legs. A traditional pair of women’s panties, depending on the cut, will hold things back in place just fine.

Bra’s of course are a different animal in that you can buy the type with pockets that are designed to hold breast forms. If you are to the point with your sissification endeavors that you are ready for breast forms, then a special sissy or crossdresser store might be an appropriate choice for you.

Breast Forms Store


Personally, my breast forms fit perfectly fine in a regular, unpadded bra. An underwire bra is important as it will tend to support your fake tits from the bottom. You would be surprised how much a pair of good quality silicone breast forms weigh.

From my experience, the padding in a padded bra will just be in the way. Your forms provide all of the volume you need, and then some!

Overall, if price and selection is an important factor for you, then you will be better off sticking to regular women’s shops when looking for sissy lingerie.

Why Sissies Prefer To Buy Their Lingerie Online

buy lingerie online

People, in general, love to purchase stuff online because it’s terribly convenient and the shipping times can be pretty damn fast now-a-days. Sissies shop online for the same reasons but also because… they can remain incognito and avoid the awkwardness, embarrassment and sometimes the humiliation that comes with dealing directly with retail sales people, who are typically women.

But there are some seriously sound reasons for you to NOT shop online sweetie. Your sissification program is a process. Part of that process is to slowly but steadily began to embrace the fact that you are a girly-girl at heart. One sure way to do that is put yourself in an environment where you can let your sissiness shine.

Purchasing sexy lingerie from a cute sales-girl can be a bit uncomfortable at first, but that will pass. Plus, as a sissy, you naturally crave being humiliated so why not embrace that aspect of sissification.

When I find myself in a humiliating situation, whether planned or spontaneous, my sissy clitty predictably responds by twitching in my panties. It’s so much fun being a sissy!

But the title of this article is “Sissy Lingerie on the Cheap” and women’s retail stores are typically anything but cheap. The majority of them are definitely NOT inexpensive, but a few of them are. So I’m giving you two very good reasons for buying your sissy lingerie locally:

  • A way to shop that will expose your sissiness in a subtle (or not-so-subtle) way
  • The potential to find some bargain prices

Types of establishments that comply with both of the above elements are none other than your local thrift store.

Why Buy Sissy Lingerie at a Thrift Store?

The prices are better-than-right AND you’ll be hanging out in the lingerie/intimates aisle. The cool thing is that you won’t be dealing directly with a salesclerk. Sure, people will still see you, but that’s the point.

You need to start conditioning yourself to the fact that you absolutely belong in the women’s section of the store. Do it once and the next trip will be easier. You will soon come to the point where you don’t give a rat’s ass what anyone thinks.

Besides, you could be buying that sexy black bra for your girlfriend or wife; nobody knows or really cares, if you want to know the truth. You will have to deal with a real, live person at checkout but rest assured, they’ve seen it all… and then some.

Depending on the thrift store, you can find some really nice bras, baby doll nightgowns, camisoles, teddys and negligees. You won’t find many (if any) panties however, due to health and sanitary reasons.

The one downside to purchasing lingerie from a thrift shop is that, typically, they won’t allow returns. Just try things on before you buy and you’ll be good.

Where to Buy Inexpensive Panties

sissy panties

Depending on what state (in the US) you live in, there’s a fairly good chance that there is a 24 hour Walmart close to you. You will find plenty of pretty panties to choose from at Walmart. The idea is to go early in the morning when the store is more-or-less deserted, but not so early enough that the the speedy-self-serve checkout stand isn’t open yet. That way you won’t have to deal with a check-out person.

But even if you have to go through the regular check-out line, please believe me when I say this: Walmart employees do not care! Regardless—just like I mentioned earlier—it’s good practice for you to purchase your intimate sissy things from front of a real, live person anyway.

If you’re a bit nervous or embarrassed, that’s only a sign that you’re serious about owning up to your sissiness; and that can be quite empowering.

But if you would prefer to buy your panties online, then I would suggest AliExpress or TheBreastFormStore. Of course there are many, many other places online where you can shop for lingerie on the cheap. eBay and Amazon are, obviously, two of the usual suspects.

What Type of Panties are Perfect for Sissies?

As a sissy, it is so very tempting to fall in love with the most slinky, skimpy and sexiest of panties. I know it is for me. Keep in mind darling that your sissy panties (unlike a genetic girl) will need to possess two attributes: sexiness and functionality. What do I mean by functionality?

In order to achieve that flat, feminine front, you will be tucking your sissy clitty back between your legs, with your balls pushed up on either side. This will require a large enough panty panel in front to securely hold everything in place without allowing your nuts to squish out to the sides. Because of this potential problem, it’s wise to buy one pair of panties at a time until you find ones that work best for you.

It’s important also to look for panties that have an open-at-the-top panty liner (aka gusset). By that I mean that the liner is not sewn closed at the top end. This design creates a little pouch that you can tuck your little clitty down inside of. For me that means no additional tucking is necessary.

If, however, you want to take a trip to the beach wearing a bikini bottom swimsuit, then you will probably want to tape things up down there. Actually, I wrote an article recently about that: The Sissy Tucking Guide.

So sweetie, if you’re willing to delicately step out of your comfort zone—just a little bit—it’s very possible to find some absolutely beautiful lingerie that won’t bust your sissy budget.

If you do happen to hearken to my suggestion and waltz into your favorite thrift store, bravely heading straight to the lingerie section, please remember this: act like you belong there… because you do darling!

Corsets Are Lingerie Too!

sissy overbust corset

When adding to your intimates collection, don’t forget to include corsets and waist cinchers on your lingerie list. Besides being a super-sexy form of lingerie, they will also help you to achieve that much-desired-and-sought-after-wasp-waist. The Sissy Guide to Corset and Waist Training will answer many of your questions about these more-than-alluring underthings.

The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto – Part 2

Note: This is Part 2 of the 3 part “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto” series. For optimal results, skipping past Part 1 – The Why, or skipping to Part 3 – The What, is NOT recommended.

If you wanted me to, I could show you how to lose 10 pounds in two weeks. Like many others, I’ve done it. There’s no special sissy science behind it. But I really wouldn’t be doing you any favors.

Yes, you would most likely lose the 10 pounds in the specified amount of time. But that doesn’t mean the excess ‘junk-in-the-trunk’ would necessarily be gone forever—it probably wouldn’t. It would be much better and waaaaay more effective if you could view losing weight from a loftier perspective.

Looking at Sissy Weight Loss as A Process

its a process

I’m confident that you’re already aware that 90% of people who lose a significant amount of weight—including sissies such as yourself—gain it all back (and then some) within a few months. For a man, that’s no big deal… just go out and buy some bigger pants.

For a girl like you that would be an unmitigated disaster. All those beautiful, and possibly expensive, clothes that you could no longer fit into would be a devastating turn of events. We don’t want you to experience any of that.

If you want to be a slim and sexy sissy, for the remainder of your feminine life, then you will want to approach your weight loss journey with more of a long term mindset. This unique program talks about a different way to eat. It’s called the Custom Keto Diet. It might be just what you’re looking for.

Like achieving anything else in life, losing weight permanently comes down to a process. And that process begins with becoming aware of what’s going on inside of your beautiful brain.

Who Do You Think You Are?

who are you

Have you ever wondered why no matter what size people happen to be, fat or skinny—or somewhere in between, most of the population’s weight doesn’t really change all that much?

Sure, there might be normal fluctuations of a few pounds throughout the week or month, but for the majority of people, unless they’re crash dieting or on a binge-eating spree at the local smorgasbord, their weight is pretty much stabilized.

The reason for this is that we all have an internal ‘weight thermostat’ that is set to—more-or-less—accurately reflect what we believe, at a subconscious level, what we think we’re supposed to weigh.

Just like the thermostat in your home which keeps your house at a constant temperature—within a couple of degrees anyway—your weight thermostat functions in the same way.

But unlike the t-stat in your home, where you can easily set it to any temperature you like, the setting on your internal weight thermostat is not so easy to change. That’s because it’s set by your internal self image.

What your body looks like—including what you weigh, is, at the most basic of levels, what you believe to be true about yourself. Since we’re not always consciously aware of our inner-most thoughts and beliefs, this concept can get a bit tricky.

You have to become self-aware enough to realize that your underlying beliefs about yourself are stealthily responsible for what your internal weight thermostat is currently set to.

You can only be, and therefore have, what you truly believe you deserve. That’s true for every part of your life, including your weight. This psychological concept explains why people have such a difficult time changing their life circumstances.

It’s damn daunting to change what you believe about yourself at the sub-conscious level. That’s why a high percentage of lottery winners find themselves broke within two years. It’s the same reason why someone who loses a significant amount of weight in a relatively short period of time, gains it all back not too long afterwards.

Although it’s incredibly difficult to re-set your internal weight t-stat and change what you believe about how your body should look overnight, it’s entirely doable using a more methodical, systematic approach.

You can use a technique to lose weight by taking several short, sissy-like steps instead of attempting to accomplish it with a single, ginormous quantum leap (aka, crash dieting).

The Concept of Weight Compartments

weight loss compartments

The idea behind this concept is to divide things up into weight compartments of 10 pounds each and then methodically move down into a different weight compartment—one compartment at a time—over and extended period of time.

Right now your weight falls within a certain ‘weight compartment’. It might be 180-190 or maybe 150-160. Whatever your weight compartment happens to be right now doesn’t really matter—simply identify where it’s at—nothing more and nothing less.

What’s critically important here is to accept your current weight compartment without beating yourself up about it. Try looking at your present weight with a neutral, detached frame of mind. I’m not saying you have to like what you weigh, just accept your weight, minus any nasty judgments.

People over-eat for a myriad of reasons, most of them being emotional or psychological. Although it may be important, at some point, to understand what these reasons are… we really don’t have time to explore them right now.

What is important to realize is that by harboring negative emotions about your current weight, will only make it more difficult for you to move down to a lower weight compartment. Saying to yourself something like “I’m a fat-ass sissy”, only serves to surround your current weight compartment with an emotional charge which tends to make it more real—locking it into place.

Viewing your present weight in an honest and unbiased manner removes all the drama from the situation, helping you to see the truth—that what you currently weigh is merely a temporary condition rather than a permanent part of your life. Embracing this perspective makes losing weight much less of a struggle.

A Real-Life Example of Sissy Weight Loss

Please allow me to share how using this concept of weight compartments has worked really well for me over the past three years. My drivers license lists my weight at 160 pounds or 72.5 kilos. While living in that compartment, I would typically weigh somewhere between 160 and 165 pounds; my weight range compartment being 160-169 pounds (72.5 to 77 kilos).

When my desire to be a muscular macho-man began to waver, my weight dropped down and leveled off to 155 pounds. My new weight compartment was now 150-159 pounds. I had traded my old 160 pound body into a slightly slimmer 155 pound version. This was now my new identity—my new belief— of what I should now weigh.

Of course I decided to make some lifestyle changes in order to transition to this lower weight-class. I was drinking less beer and eating healthier, but it was natural and easy for me because this is how a 155 pound person lives their lives. I was satisfied to be in this newer weight compartment for around 5 years. It had become my new ‘normal’.

As more of my sissy nature began to surface, I decided I wanted a slimmer, sexier and more feminine looking body. Being in the 150’s wasn’t doing it for me any longer. Wanting to drop down into the 140-149 weight compartment was a BIG deal for me!

As I was moving in that skinnier direction, I wasn’t able to consistently stay there. I fluctuated between 147 and 152 pounds over the course of a year or so. Psychologically, I didn’t yet see myself as a person who weighed-in at 140 something.

In other words, my long-held beliefs concerning my weight were not in alignment with my desires.

But after I was able to spend a greater percentage of my time at 147 pounds, my self-image—my internal weight thermostat—eventually became more congruent with my sissy weight loss aspirations.

Soon I had left the 150’s in the dust and took up semi-permanent residency in the 140-149 weight compartment. I say semi, not because I was ever going back up to a more manly 150 pound weight range… on the contrary, I was setting my sissy sights much lower. Could it be possible for me to get into the 130’s?

As I mentioned before, my driver’s license indicated that I weighed 160 pounds. My height was listed as a proportionate 5′ 9″. But I was never legitimately that tall; closer to 68 inches in reality. Since guys usually want to be taller so I fudged my height up.

Losing my desire to be a man was giving me a different perspective on height. Most girls don’t want to be tall. I actually stand at 67.5 inches or 171.5 cm. I now round that down to a more feminine 67 inches.

Of course what I’m doing here is using my reduced height to rationalize a lower weight. What sounds sexier… 5′ 7″ and 140 something or 5′ 7″ and 130 something? What began as a pretty much unobtainable dream/desire to weigh 137 pounds has turned into a reality for me.

As I write these words, I weighed myself this morning at 135 pounds—with my panties on! I can safely say that I am now a permanent sissified citizen of the 130-139 weight club. Yep, that’s the real me below.

Sissy Weight Loss
My Sissy Weight Loss Journey

This is a break-down of how the time-frame transpired. I keep a spreadsheet of my weight (I’m such a sissy nerd):

For most of 2016 I weighed somewhere in the 150’s. I got a brief glimpse of the 140’s towards the end of that year.

2017 saw me in the upper 140 pound range. 2018 was more of the same but I broke through to 139 at the very end of that year. For 2019 I’ve been consistently in the mid-to-high 130 pound range.

It was imperative that I spent a significant amount of time in each weight compartment so as to allow my self image to ‘catch-up’ with my new, lower weight.

It took me over 3 years to go from 155 pounds to 135 pounds. Yes, I could have lost that 20 pounds in less than three months if I had really wanted to. But, like I stated earlier in this article, the weight wouldn’t have stayed off.

Three months just isn’t enough time to change your deeply held beliefs about who you are. After 20 pounds of relatively rapid weight loss, I still would have psychologically been a 155 pound person—and would have acted accordingly in putting the weight back on.

It would have been a classic case of subtle-self-sabotage at its best.

Back in 2016 my internal weight thermostat was set to reflect something between a more-or-less 155 pound macho male and a wanna-be sissy. Now I identify as a 135 pound serious sissy—and a slim and sexy one at that.

The past three years has been an identity-changing process; and it was the perfect time-frame for me to do it in. Is it possible that you could change your identity, weight-wise, in a shorter amount of time? Maybe so.

Creating a New Identity For Yourself

Sissy Weight Loss

As a sissy, you can weigh whatever you want. You don’t have to be a skinny-assed sissy… but if that’s your desire—and it might be since you’re reading this article—then you will, over time, need to change your identity by re-setting your internal weight thermostat.

It’s neither necessary nor advisable to try to hasten the process. It takes some time. You just need to patiently progress into your new you.

  • Babies naturally go from crawlers to walkers
  • Self-made billionaires morph from being broke to rich
  • Ugly crossdressers transform into transgender beauties
  • Sissies progress from masculine to more feminine… and maybe even from heavier to lighter

Improving your life in any way is a matter of embarking on a process that entails constant and consistent progress. During this journey you are methodically morphing into something different… creating a completely new identity for yourself.

You really can’t short-circuit this identity-changing process. Your desires must be congruent with your current beliefs about yourself, otherwise you’ll experience what is called ‘cognitive dissonance’ and any changes just aren’t gonna stick. You can’t fake a new identity—it’s gotta be real.

If you’re willing to embrace this WAY of losing weight and not succumb to the “I want it all—and I want it now” attitude so prevalent in our impatient culture, then you might be interested in what physical actions you need to take in order to permanently lose weight.

Are You Ready For The “WHAT”?

the what

As a former compulsively obsessed runner—turned certified personal trainer—turned professional dieter—turned skinny sissy, I have been able to zero in on the most effective and healthiest methods to lose weight.

That’s what Part 3 – The WHAT of the “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto” is all about.

Now that you have this crucial ‘mindset’ part of MtF weight loss down, then the actual actions you need to take become an after-thought… just an ongoing part of this sissy weight loss process.

It’s now time to set your sights on the next lower weight compartment and move on to the WHAT.

A Sissy Hourglass Figure?

If you’re interested in achieving that coveted—and much admired—hourglass figure, you may want to check out my article: The Sissy Feminizing Workout For an Hourglass Figure.

The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto – Part 1

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Note: This is Part 1 of the 3 part “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto” series. For optimal results, reading Part 2 – The Way or Part 3 – The What out of order is NOT recommended.

Looking your best is important to all girls—especially sissies—and there are not too many feminizing endeavors that can make you look better than losing those extra pounds. Sure, your makeup is ultra important, but being slim and sexy is certainly near the top of many of, if not most of, a sissy’s ‘I-want-to-be’ list.

Being a skinny sissy will allow you to look better in (and out of) clothes. On top of that, becoming svelte will make you:

  • more passable
  • younger looking
  • desirable
  • able to find a partner easier
  • feel more confident
  • healthier (so you can live a longer sissy life)

Concentrate On What You Can Control – Sissy Weight Loss

what you can control

The hard truth is that there are some things that are out of your control in your quest to become the best sissy you can be. For example, there is only so much a great makeup job can do to turn a masculine face with a square jaw into something with more feminine lines. Taking hormones and/or undergoing feminizing facial surgery are expensive procedures.

If you’re content with being a part-time, crossdressing sissy, then you wouldn’t be interested in those types of permanent MtF transformation interventions anyway.

Growing out your hair and keeping your nails long and painted might not work well at your job or around family and friends. Some sissies won’t even keep their bodies free from hair because of real or imagined social ramifications.

As a personal example, because of my chronological age, I have drooping eyelids… and I’m not contemplating surgery for them anytime soon. Combined with my less-than-stellar makeup skills—I don’t apply makeup everyday—my fem-face doesn’t always look super great.

Since I don’t have total control over my age and eyelids, I’ve made the decision to focus on my body. Although I’m not super-passable by any means, because of my relatively slim shape (5’7″ – 133 lbs), I look pretty damn good in clothes when I go out en femme. I’ve made my girlish figure my strength to compensate for the areas that I don’t have much, if any, control over.

I know as well as any sissy that there are just way too many feminizing things a sissy can’t, doesn’t want to, or is simply unwilling to do on a consistent basis to accentuate the sissification process.

But losing weight really shouldn’t be one of them! If you’ve struggled with weight loss in the past, then this controversial eating program might be just what you’re looking for.

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Although getting good with makeup certainly quailifies as being something you can control, it’s relatively expensive to purchase and takes a ton of time and effort to become proficient at it.

Losing weight will actually save you money (eat less food) and save you time (fewer and shorter meal times). And once you’ve mastered the art of skinniness, you will be able to shop for all the skinny jeans and sexy dresses you want without worrying about not being able to fit into them three months down the road.

Leveraging Your Sissy Assets

I don’t know about you but being a sissy can leave me quite confused at times. One thing I’ve noticed is that when I’m feeling psychologically ‘all-in’ as a girl, I’m much more motivated to do girly things… like lose weight.

So instead of focusing on feelings such as embarrassment, dysphoria or shame, I’ve decided to embrace my sissyness and use it as an asset to enhance my overall life.

Being slim and trim improves your life as either a man or a woman—depending on who you want to present yourself as on any given day. A skinny sissy makes for an overall healthier and happier person.

I encourage you to use your sissiness as a springboard to a better life. Focusing on your femininity can be so much fun. It’s damn sexy to shave a slim and toned body leaving it silky smooth.

Whatever your sissy assets happen to be, put your best sissy foot forward and use them to your full advantage. Fostering feminine qualities like beauty, sensitivity and sexiness can bring so much peace and contentment into your life. Being slim and trim can set the tone for more femininity to follow.

The Why, The Way, The What

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This Part 1 of “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto” has zeroed in on the WHY of sissy weight loss. After reading this, it shouldn’t be difficult for you to clearly see why a sissy’s focus should be on losing those extra pounds.

There’s absolutely nothing else you can do—something that’s entirely under your control—that will enhance your sissyness more than having a slim, sexy body.

If you’re struggling to lose weight, you already know that you’re not alone. Being a slim and sexy sissy doesn’t have to be all about sacrifice, struggle and deprivation. Although it’s definitely not easy at first, especially if you don’t know about changing how you identify with your body, it is entirely doable.

Most people, including sissies, focus their energies on the methodology of losing weight… the different diets, exercise programs, etc. That part is the WHAT of how to permanently lose weight and I thoroughly cover the best weight loss methods that I’ve found in Part 3 of this manifesto.

Naturally, that’s the part that everyone wants to read first. I’m here to tell you that by beginning with the WHAT is completely ass-backwards. It would be like putting the cart in front of Cinderella’s mice.

Do you ever wonder why such a small percentage of people who try, manage to ever lose a significant amount of weight—and even if they do—90% of them inexplicably put it all back on (and then some) within a few months?

It’s because they first don’t understand their WHY of losing weight. As a sissy, you now know your WHY by reading this first part. But even more importantly, they aren’t aware of the underlying but extremely essential WAY of losing weight.

The WAY to lose weight is to gain an understanding of the unseen forces that are currently controlling how much you currently weigh. You’re probably not even aware that they exist.

This very important ‘WAY’ is what I talk about in Part 2 of “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto”. Being aware of what’s going on inside of your pretty little sissy head MUST come before implementing the WHAT, the specific weight loss methods.

Taking a short-cut by going directly to Part 3 will, more-or-less, ensure that you will never get that sexy, sissy body of your dreams.

Now that you know your WHY I hope you are inspired to continue to Part 2… the WAY to sissy weight loss.

A Sissy Hourglass Figure?

If you’re interested in achieving that coveted—and much admired—hourglass figure, you may want to check out my article: The Sissy Feminizing Workout For an Hourglass Figure.

The Sissy Tucking Guide

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If you’re a sissy that enjoys presenting your sexy-self to the world, it’s important to skillfully tuck your male stuff out of the way in order to have that all-so-important flat-feminine-front.

There has been enough articles posted and videos made about the various methods of tucking. So much so that things can get quite confusing. Everyone seems to think that their way is the best way.

The thing is… there is no best way. You do however, want to find the best way to tuck for you.

This sissy tucking guide will help you to determine that.

First Off – Forget the Gaff


The modern gaff is simply a compression type of panty that is designed to hold your penis and balls in place once you have them positioned properly.

Feel free to use a gaff if you want. There are so many types and styles available. Or just a pair of tight-fitting panties might do the trick. You probably already have a pair of panties that will work.

The main thing to realize is that you don’t really need a gaff for sissy tucking.

Are You a Shower or a Grower

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Some sissies—like me—are fairly small when soft but grow to an average size when stiff. Other girls (showers) are larger when flaccid but don’t necessarily get significantly bigger when aroused.

Growers—like me—don’t need to be so concerned with sophisticated tucking. Just tuck your clitty down, facing rewards, into your panties and you’re good to go.

Showers, on the other hand, need to adopt more serious measures in order to adequately hide things away.

Also, certain circumstances will determine how much tucking-effort is necessary. For example: a trip to the beach in a itsy-bitsy bikini will require a superior tuck job. Same probably goes with a night out on the karaoke stage.

The Lost, Secret Inguinal Canals

inguinal canal

Many tucking tutorials will advise you to first pop your nuts back to where they originally decended from—the inguinal canals. These pockets purportedly lie on either side of the upper pubic area. You first find their openings and then gently press/poke your balls up into them.

This sounds all well and good… IF they are really there and… IF you can find them!

I’ve never managed to locate these so-called pockets on me, maybe because I’ve had a hernia patch type of surgery which could be blocking them off.

But that should only be the case for the side I had the surgery on, right? Or maybe I don’t have these super-hard-to-find-and-possibly-non-existent canals/pockets.

Other CD and TG continue to insist that they are definitely there. Whatever. The good news is that it’s not necessary to have, much less find these inguinal canals in order to do a more-than-competent tucking job.

The Quick and Dirty Way to Sissy Tucking

One quick and dirty way to tuck is to use either duct or light-weight packing tape. Although this method is quick, it’s also dirty. I’ll explain why the latter is true at the end of this section. Duct tape is strong and sticky. Packing tape is less sticky and not as strong (but strong enough).

For this method you will need 3 pieces of tape about 16 inches long. First you position one of your nuts up to the side of your pubic area. It is now pushed up, lying underneath the skin, up and out of it’s ball sack.

Then, pushing your penis and nut sack down between your legs—facing rearward—you place one piece of tape just above the nut and tape diagonally, over your package, skirting your butt crack, and then winding up on the opposite butt cheek.

Then, while pushing, and then holding the other twin up, you place the second piece of tape in the exact but opposite manner as the first.

Now you take the third piece of tape and place the end in the center, just above the pubic area, and tape straight down, over your butt crack, ending up between and just past your butt cheeks.

I used a thinner, more specialized form of duct tape below, but any 2″ wide duct tape will work.

Sissy Tucking

Now slip into a sexy pair of panties to cover everything up and you’re tucked and ready to head out. Your highly-positioned nuts make for a nice looking camel toe effect.

A few things to consider:

  • Be sure to first shave really well (I know, obvious)
  • The tape needs to be pulled VERY tight so as to achieve the flat-femme look
  • The light-brown colored, Scotch Brand packing tape blends in with the skin tone much better than gray duct tape (in case an edge happens to show around the bikini line)
  • You can place a thin sanitary mini-pad over your clitty (underneath the tape) to facilitate removal of the tape later

For size reference purposes, the larger pad is 10″ long.


This tucking-taping method works really well except for one one very important thing: what if you have to pee? Since there’s nowhere for the urine to go, it makes for a wet and messy situation. The trapped moisture also tends to compromise the stickiness of the tape.

There’s got to be a better way… and there is!

My Favorite Way to Tuck

A superior way to tuck (IMHO), still uses tape—albeit a different type—but in a different way. The beauty of this method is that you end up with a flat-feminine-front but retain the ability to pee freely. That’s really important to me.

Instead of duct or packing tape, you will be using masking or clear marine tape. Masking tape is less sticky but has no stretch to it. Marine tape has more sticking power and it’s also stretchy (which is a good thing). Both the masking and marine are of the one-inch-wide variety. In case you were wondering, this is what clear marine tape looks like.

You begin much like in the ‘quick and dirty method’ above, but push both of your nuts up around the pubic area simultaneously, leaving the empty ball sack dangling down below.

Now you sort of wrap the empty sack around your penis so that it’s one, neat little package. You then take the tape and, starting from the top (at the base of where your nuts are now positioned), wrap it tightly around your ball sack/penis package. Continue taping down, toward the end of your clitty, but stopping before you reach the head.

I used blue masking tape in the below photo so you can see it clearly. It’s actually better to use the lighter beige color that you’re no doubt familiar with. I have not personally tested the clear marine tape but have heard that it’s a superior choice because of its flexible nature.

tape wrap

This tightly wrapped package keeps your nuts pushed up, underneath the skin—again creating a sexy camel toe look. You’re now ready to move on to the final part of the taping procedure.

You are now going to use the same 1″ wide tape and place two strips, starting just outside where your nuts are now positioned, diagonally across your wrapped-up package, then through your butt crack, sticking the ends of each piece in the center, an appropriate distance above that said crack.

tape tuck

Like in the quick and dirty method that uses duct tape, these two pieces of tape will wind up being approximately 16 inches long—depending on your particular body dimensions.

You gotta pull these two pieces of tape tight so that you achieve the desired flattening effect.

Also, especially if you’re using masking tape—which doesn’t stretch—it’s a good idea to squat down while fastening the ends at the rear. Otherwise, you risk the tape pulling loose if you do need to squat while out and dressed.

Your clitty is now positioned upside down, facing rear-ward. Since the head has not been covered with tape, you are free to drop your panties, sit down and pee away.

A few notes on tape:

    • Remember, use 1 inch wide tape
    • Since you are taping directly to the penis, make sure that you don’t use tape that is too sticky
    • This point is so obvious… shave first

Chastity and Sissy Tucking

flat cage

Most sissies love the idea of chastity since sexual denial helps to enhance your sissy enthusiasm. No more unwanted male refractory periods that tend to derail you from experiencing the exquisite sensations of constant erotic arousal.

The problem is that it’s difficult to tuck the bulge created by a chastity cage well enough to not be noticed by a discerning eye.

If you absolutely must stay in chastity—and still want to venture out in public— then, although not a perfect solution, the above pictured chastity device would be an acceptable option.

Alternately, a fake camel toe pad that will fit nicely over a chastity cage might work for you.

Sissy Tucking

While being locked up in a chastity device is not conducive to having a perfectly flat-femme look, using one of the above two work-arounds will, more-or-less, do a satisfactory job.

Speaking of Chastity

If you would like to experience all the sissification benefits that a chastity cage can provide, then you will certainly want to check out my Sissy Chastity Devices Page.