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7 BS Reasons Why a Sissy Shouldn’t Transition

July 10, 2024July 10, 2024 by Jordyn Addison

Have you ever wondered or fantasized about transitioning into a full-time girl? Or maybe it’s more than just a fantasy. Perhaps you’ve seriously considered making the switch from male to sissified female.

Let’s be real… most sissies don’t find themselves in a situation that is transition friendly. There are unsupportive wives, other family members, friends and certainly careers that oftentimes stand staunchly in the way, effectively creating formidable road-blocks to realizing your sissy desires.

But maybe you aren’t in a relationship. You might be a student, retired or maybe work from home. Could be… you don’t have any kids, or they are grown-up and are living their own lives now.

There’s absolutely nothing standing in the way of you becoming the woman of your dreams.

Except you!

You’ve managed to come up with some solid-as-concrete reasons why transitioning can never be for you.

What if I were to suggest that that your so-called reasonable reasons for not pursuing your feminization fantasies are not valid arguments at all. That they are merely conjured-up myths-of-the-mind. Or to but it more succinctly…

Bullshit Excuses!

But if you insist on treating them as ‘eminently good reasons’ then okay, I’ll go ahead and humor you for just a second. But it is my intention to show you that all of your compelling justifications are merely just flimsy excuses.

Reason #1 – I’m Too Old

Age can be used as an excuse to not do anything. You can be too old to go back to school, have kids, get in shape, travel the world, learn to sing and, yes… even transition.

The truth is that except for maybe a very few things (like climbing Mt Everest or dunking a basketball), you’re not too old to do anything, other than that what you are telling yourself you’re too old for.

Anne Koch—her book is excellent—transitioned when she was 63 years old.

Caitlyn Jenner was 65 when she decided to make the switch. There are several women who have transitioned while in their 70’s. So if they can do it, why not you?

The cool thing is that with new knowledge and developments surrounding the anti-aging and longevity areas of study, it’s possible, with the proper mindset and dedication, to turn back the biological clock and turn the aging process on it’s head.

For a perfect example of what’s possible, take a look at Dolly Parton. She’s 75 and looks amazing!

The best time to transition was when you were younger. The next best time is now.

Reason #2 – I’m Too Tall

Both of the above mentioned transgender women are 6’2″ – 6’6″ (at least) in heels. Apparently, they didn’t allow their height to prevent them from becoming who they really are. Nor should you.

There are lot’s of six foot tall GG girls walking around out there. They don’t run away and hide in the hamper.

It’s all about attitude and effusing self-confidence. The world will accept you if you’re willing to accept yourself. You might wanna read this Reddit thread for some inspiration.

Using the “I’m too tall” excuse is more than a little lame. Don’t do it.

Reason #3 – I’m Not Pretty or Passable Enough

We’d all like to be a bit better looking. But if you start comparing yourself with all the stunning trans girls out there, you’ll be perpetually disappointed.

The thing is… with hormones, facial feminization surgery, skillful makeup application and weight loss, you can become a pretty damn attractive woman.

Add fashionable and/or sexy clothes to the above mix and there’s no limit to how good you can look. Yes, MtF transition requires time, dedication, money and courage. But the finished product will be well worth it.

Reason #4 – I’m Too Muscular

Not all TG women walk around looking delicate, weak and waif-like, as if they’re in constant need of protection. A girl with some definition and muscle tone can be quite attractive. Female fitness contestants for example, look amazing.

Also, three years of hormones and yoga will change how your body looks. Your musculature can definitely be toned down to a more feminine looking physique. Don’t let your current body build prevent you from moving forward.

Reason #5 – I’m Too Hairy

This excuse not to transition is easy to circumvent, at least for body hair. It’s called shaving and/or IPL/laser hair removal.

News flash! cis gender women shave their legs. You can too! Personally, I use a home IPL (intense pulsed light) unit and it works really, really well. I’m now shaving my body less often and with much less hair to remove.

Admittedly, the face is a greater challenge. The only permanent hair removal method for facial hair is by undergoing electrolysis. It’s a time consuming, painful and expensive process. But it’s definitely doable.

And if you want to transition, it’s just part of the deal.

Reason #6 – I’m Bald or Losing My Hair

It would certainly be nice to have a full head of luscious, feminine hair to call your very own. If you’re balding or thinning up top, you can change that—at a cost.

If you have enough hair that can be used as a donor area, then hair transplants are an option. If not to give 100% coverage, then enough to use as a base for anchoring hair extensions.

The other route to go would be to use either a topically applied hair regrowth product that contains minoxidil such as Rogaine or orally taking finasteride, the active ingredient in Propecia. Using both of them simultaneously can improve results dramatically.

Be aware that one of the possible side effects of taking finasteride is erectile dysfunction (along with a lowering of libido). As a sissy, this could actually work in your favor.

Then of course, there are always wigs. The preponderance of inexpensive, but also nice looking wigs now-a-days makes it so that having thinning hair, or even total baldness, is really not an issue—nor an excuse—when it comes to transitioning.

Reason #7 – Transitioning is Too Expensive

Like divorce, transitioning is expensive. And like divorce, that’s okay… because both are well worth it. Anytime you take on a challenging and complicated endeavor, like switching genders, it’s gonna cost you.

Even for trans girls who decide to forego the hormone and/or surgery route, there’s still expenses like hair removal, voice feminization lessons, clothes and makeup to consider.

If you don’t think it’s possible to look amazing without hormones or surgery, then you might want to take a look at this girl’s profile over on FetLife. BTW, that’s her in the photo below. Just so you know, she stands six-foot-three and has a penchant for wearing nose-bleed heels.

The good news is that with ever-changing attitudes regarding trans people, medical insurance companies, including Medicare, are beginning to come on board and sometimes cover FHT and even gender reassignment surgery.

If your insurance doesn’t happen to cover transition procedures, then you will have to pay out of pocket. But these costs can be saved-up for and spread out over time.

For example, you might start off with electrolysis, then move on to hormones. After that you can undergo FFS—which can be split-up into several different procedures. Breast augmentation can come next, followed up with bottom-end surgery, if you decide to go that far.

The thing is, if you want to transition badly enough, you WILL find a way to come up with the money. There is ALWAYS a way! You just have to get creative with the financing.

Stop With the Excuses Already

So, hopefully I’ve made it crystal clear that if you’re trans, or trans enough, then you really don’t have any good reasons to not transition and become the girl that you want to be. In fact, they were never actually reasons to begin with—only pathetic, pitiful excuses.

Show some sissy courage, and just do what needs to be done darling.

Are You Trans Enough?

Of course if you’re not sure if you are actually transgender, or trans enough, then you wouldn’t want to begin the transition process. To figure out if you are TG or not, you might find this article helpful: Are You a Crossdresser or Transgender?

Are You a Sissy? 10 Ways To Know For Sure

July 3, 2024July 3, 2024 by Jordyn Addison

If you’ve ever wondered if you really are a sissy, or contemplated on how much sissyness is trapped inside of you, you’re not alone darling. It’s completely normal for questions such as these to pop up into your pretty little head.

Some would say that if you have to ask, then the answer is apparent. But just in case you are experiencing some gender identity confusion, the following 10 questions may help to clear things up for you.

1 – When you were a little boy (or maybe even a teenager) did you ever feel compelled to try on your mother’s, sister’s or cousin’s clothes?

This question will take you back to the roots of your sissyness. Trying to figure out why you had this overwhelming desire to enjoy the feel of soft, silky, feminine garments next to your skin is an exercise in futility.

It might have something to do with the way you were raised. Or… maybe you were just born that way.

The only thing that really matters is to not place any judgements on nor have feelings of guilt about your dress-up-desires. Society may say otherwise, but our narrow-minded culture can be kind of fucked-up in this area.

The important thing is that if you did feel inspired to put on something feminine, you get sissy bonus points for actually following through and trying on that cute little dress!

2 – Have you ever gone down on a girl immediately afterwards so that you can actually taste your cum?

Sweetie, this is a seriously submissive act, and we both know that sissies are submissive by default. A true sissy loves to perform oral servitude on women—and sometimes, even men.

Sissies also fantasize about eating their own cum, so if you’ve answered the above question in the affirmative, you’re corroborating your apptitude for sissiness.

In addition, if you enjoy eating out a girl more than actually fucking her, then I believe you can take this to mean that your inner-sissy quotient is pretty damn fucking high.

C’mon, any delusional claims you may have as to being in any-way-shape-or-form an alpha male would be seriously offensive to a real man.

3 – When you see an exremely attractive women, what do you notice most; her tits and ass or her nails and heels?

A sissy’s focus would obviously be on her nails and heels… along with her makeup, hair, fashionable clothes and jewelry.

Although a real man would be peripherally aware of these feminine attributes, his main interest would be on her body. He would want to rip all those beautiful clothes off her and fuck the shit out of this georgous woman.

A sissy, on the other hand, legitimately holds a high amount of admiration for how this feminine creature has artfully put herself together. There’s even a bit of envy on the sissy’s part of how captivating this girl looks.

Sure, a sissy would maybe like to fuck her, if she (the sissy) could get it up, but she would probably get more enjoyment out of being fabulously dressed-up herself and getting fucked. Following along with that same sissified mindset…

4 – Have you ever avoided approaching a woman even when the situation is perfect and it’s obvious that she wants to be approached?

This scenario is most often attributed to approach anxiety and being generally unconfident around women. But why are you fearful and anxious when it comes to women? Is this a problem that needs to be overcome, or is it just that you’re a spineless sissy by nature? It’s a valid question that you need to be honestly asking yourself.

It’s quite possible that your less-than-large dick (or sissy clitty) is frightened of pussy.

If, as a sissy, you don’t feel worthy enough to fuck this girl, then you will subconsciously self-sabotage any attempt to apporach her, the gorgeous goddess that she is. Maybe you would be more content to be her sissy slave instead? Just asking.

5 – Do you sometimes wear lingerie, high heels and dresses?

If you do, that means that you’re a crossdresser, but not necessarily a sissy. Sissies are submissive and subservient. Their role in life is not only to look pretty, but to be obedient and have a penchant for providing pleasure.

But, if you have already started putting together your feminine wardrobe—lingerie, pretty dresses and high heels—then these other questions will help you to ascertain whether you possess the aptitude required for taking things to a different place… and become a full-fledged sissy.

6 – What do you fantasize about while masturbating?

Since sissies are crossdressers that have a decidedly submissive nature to them, then this question will be an acid-like test to determine how docile and subservient you really are.

If you get off by having someone giving out orders as to what they want you to do, then you have the submissive qualities necessary for being a serious sissy. If you gain even greater enjoyment by obeying these orders, then that is further proof of your meekness.

Does being a sissy slave to a dominate woman do it for you? Would you like her to fuck you up the ass with a strapon while you moan in ecstasy? How about being kept in chastity 24/7 and serving as her cuckold slut—your primary role being to fluff up her lover?

Does being dressed up in something girly while all of this is happening make your little sissy dick twitch? We can stop right here sweetie… you’re definitely a sissy.

7 – Do you wonder what it would be like to suck on a real cock while dressed as sissy?

Since I broached the subject of you serving as a ‘fluffer’ for your mistress, we might as well take this matter a bit further. Yeah, since most crossdressers are straight the thought of sucking on a cock might not do it for them. But as a sissy, well that’s a different story. When sissies are all dolled-up, a psychological shift takes place.

In the quest to validate her femininity, she suddenly becomes a submissive fuck toy to be used by either a woman or a man. A sissy slut is pretty much required to become a capable cocksucker.

I suggest you get out your dildo—hopefully you have one—apply some lipstick and begin a regular practice schedule. Soon enough you’ll have the opportunity to have your pretty lips wrapped around the real thing… and you won’t want to disappoint.

BTW, if you’re looking to buy a dildo, make sure you read this article first.

8 – Do you prefer to sit down to pee, even when it is not absolutely necessary?

You don’t need me to tell you this but that is boda fide, ladylike behavior.

The more important question is, why do you do feel the urge to do it? You most likely already know—it’s one relatively small, seemingly insignificant form of behavior that makes you feel like a girl.

But is it really that trivial of an act? If you haven’t yet began to flush-out your feminine feelings, maybe it’s time you do so.

9 – Do you shave any parts of your body that men typically don’t shave?

I realize that many men shave their legs for sports and stuff like that. They may even shave their underarms for hygienic reasons. But if you do shave, it’s time to be totally transparent with yourself—what’s your underlying motivation? Might there be some subtle, secondary benefits you are receiving?

Do you enjoy the feel of pulling on a pair of nylon stockings over your freshly shaved legs?. Or perhaps it’s the smooth, silky feeling you experience when sliding between the sheets at night.

Let’s face it, being hairless feels oh-so feminine. Maybe it’s time to go all the way and keep your entire body shaved?

Now-a-days it’s not all that uncommon. You could get away with it if you really wanted to. Plus, every time you shave yourself smooth, it has the effect of affirming your sissyness.

10 – Do you paint your toenails?

If you do, then you already have effeminately embraced being a sissy. If you don’t, I think it’s time to start. Not too many things will make you feel more feminine than keeping your toenails painted.

If you’re not quite ready to show them off to the world, then it’s easy enough to keep them covered-up in the winter. During the summer months, you can paint them a neutral color. There are other creative strategies—for example, I wear special yoga socks when I attend yoga classes.

Hopefully, the question “Are You a Sissy?” is now as straight forward for you to answer as it is for me. Something can be said for surrendering to who you truly are sweetie. It’s an intoxicating feeling to wake up in the morning, climb out of bed and look down.

The first thing I see is a view of a flat, feminine front—a pair of panties covering up my tucked-back sissy clitty. As my gaze moves further down, my eyes are directed to a pair of smoothly shaven legs followed up with my prettily polished toenails.

What a way to start of the day! Am I a sissy? It sure does look like it. The more important question is… are you?

Becoming the sissy of your dreams doesn’t happen overnight!

Sissification is a process. It’s a matter of taking consistent, dainty, high-heel-like-steps in order to arrive in Sissyville (maybe that could be a real place someday).

In the meantime, I wrote a popular article about Your Sissification Process. You might find it interesting.

The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto – Part 2

June 24, 2024June 24, 2024 by Jordyn Addison

Note: This is Part 2 of the 3 part “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto” series. For optimal results, skipping past Part 1 – The Why, or skipping to Part 3 – The What, is NOT recommended.

If you wanted me to, I could show you how to lose 10 pounds in two weeks. Like many others, I’ve done it. There’s no special sissy science behind it. But I really wouldn’t be doing you any favors.

Yes, you would most likely lose the 10 pounds in the specified amount of time. But that doesn’t mean the excess ‘junk-in-the-trunk’ would necessarily be gone forever—it probably wouldn’t. It would be much better and waaaaay more effective if you could view losing weight from a loftier perspective.

Looking at Sissy Weight Loss as A Process

I’m confident that you’re already aware that 90% of people who lose a significant amount of weight—including sissies such as yourself—gain it all back (and then some) within a few months. For a man, that’s no big deal… just go out and buy some bigger pants.

For a girl like you that would be an unmitigated disaster. All those beautiful, and possibly expensive, clothes that you could no longer fit into would be a devastating turn of events. We don’t want you to experience any of that.

If you want to be a slim and sexy sissy, for the remainder of your feminine life, then you will want to approach your weight loss journey with more of a long term mindset. This unique program talks about a different way to eat. It’s called the Custom Keto Diet. It might be just what you’re looking for.

Like achieving anything else in life, losing weight permanently comes down to a process. And that process begins with becoming aware of what’s going on inside of your beautiful brain.

Who Do You Think You Are?

Have you ever wondered why no matter what size people happen to be, fat or skinny—or somewhere in between, most of the population’s weight doesn’t really change all that much?

Sure, there might be normal fluctuations of a few pounds throughout the week or month, but for the majority of people, unless they’re crash dieting or on a binge-eating spree at the local smorgasbord, their weight is pretty much stabilized.

The reason for this is that we all have an internal ‘weight thermostat’ that is set to—more-or-less—accurately reflect what we believe, at a subconscious level, what we think we’re supposed to weigh.

Just like the thermostat in your home which keeps your house at a constant temperature—within a couple of degrees anyway—your weight thermostat functions in the same way.

But unlike the t-stat in your home, where you can easily set it to any temperature you like, the setting on your internal weight thermostat is not so easy to change. That’s because it’s set by your internal self image.

What your body looks like—including what you weigh, is, at the most basic of levels, what you believe to be true about yourself. Since we’re not always consciously aware of our inner-most thoughts and beliefs, this concept can get a bit tricky.

You have to become self-aware enough to realize that your underlying beliefs about yourself are stealthily responsible for what your internal weight thermostat is currently set to.

You can only be, and therefore have, what you truly believe you deserve. That’s true for every part of your life, including your weight. This psychological concept explains why people have such a difficult time changing their life circumstances.

It’s damn daunting to change what you believe about yourself at the sub-conscious level. That’s why a high percentage of lottery winners find themselves broke within two years. It’s the same reason why someone who loses a significant amount of weight in a relatively short period of time, gains it all back not too long afterwards.

Although it’s incredibly difficult to re-set your internal weight t-stat and change what you believe about how your body should look overnight, it’s entirely doable using a more methodical, systematic approach.

You can use a technique to lose weight by taking several short, sissy-like steps instead of attempting to accomplish it with a single, ginormous quantum leap (aka, crash dieting).

The Concept of Weight Compartments

The idea behind this concept is to divide things up into weight compartments of 10 pounds each and then methodically move down into a different weight compartment—one compartment at a time—over and extended period of time.

Right now your weight falls within a certain ‘weight compartment’. It might be 180-190 or maybe 150-160. Whatever your weight compartment happens to be right now doesn’t really matter—simply identify where it’s at—nothing more and nothing less.

What’s critically important here is to accept your current weight compartment without beating yourself up about it. Try looking at your present weight with a neutral, detached frame of mind. I’m not saying you have to like what you weigh, just accept your weight, minus any nasty judgments.

People over-eat for a myriad of reasons, most of them being emotional or psychological. Although it may be important, at some point, to understand what these reasons are… we really don’t have time to explore them right now.

What is important to realize is that by harboring negative emotions about your current weight, will only make it more difficult for you to move down to a lower weight compartment. Saying to yourself something like “I’m a fat-ass sissy”, only serves to surround your current weight compartment with an emotional charge which tends to make it more real—locking it into place.

Viewing your present weight in an honest and unbiased manner removes all the drama from the situation, helping you to see the truth—that what you currently weigh is merely a temporary condition rather than a permanent part of your life. Embracing this perspective makes losing weight much less of a struggle.

A Real-Life Example of Sissy Weight Loss

Please allow me to share how using this concept of weight compartments has worked really well for me over the past three years. My drivers license lists my weight at 160 pounds or 72.5 kilos. While living in that compartment, I would typically weigh somewhere between 160 and 165 pounds; my weight range compartment being 160-169 pounds (72.5 to 77 kilos).

When my desire to be a muscular macho-man began to waver, my weight dropped down and leveled off to 155 pounds. My new weight compartment was now 150-159 pounds. I had traded my old 160 pound body into a slightly slimmer 155 pound version. This was now my new identity—my new belief— of what I should now weigh.

Of course I decided to make some lifestyle changes in order to transition to this lower weight-class. I was drinking less beer and eating healthier, but it was natural and easy for me because this is how a 155 pound person lives their lives. I was satisfied to be in this newer weight compartment for around 5 years. It had become my new ‘normal’.

As more of my sissy nature began to surface, I decided I wanted a slimmer, sexier and more feminine looking body. Being in the 150’s wasn’t doing it for me any longer. Wanting to drop down into the 140-149 weight compartment was a BIG deal for me!

As I was moving in that skinnier direction, I wasn’t able to consistently stay there. I fluctuated between 147 and 152 pounds over the course of a year or so. Psychologically, I didn’t yet see myself as a person who weighed-in at 140 something.

In other words, my long-held beliefs concerning my weight were not in alignment with my desires.

But after I was able to spend a greater percentage of my time at 147 pounds, my self-image—my internal weight thermostat—eventually became more congruent with my sissy weight loss aspirations.

Soon I had left the 150’s in the dust and took up semi-permanent residency in the 140-149 weight compartment. I say semi, not because I was ever going back up to a more manly 150 pound weight range… on the contrary, I was setting my sissy sights much lower. Could it be possible for me to get into the 130’s?

As I mentioned before, my driver’s license indicated that I weighed 160 pounds. My height was listed as a proportionate 5′ 9″. But I was never legitimately that tall; closer to 68 inches in reality. Since guys usually want to be taller so I fudged my height up.

Losing my desire to be a man was giving me a different perspective on height. Most girls don’t want to be tall. I actually stand at 67.5 inches or 171.5 cm. I now round that down to a more feminine 67 inches.

Of course what I’m doing here is using my reduced height to rationalize a lower weight. What sounds sexier… 5′ 7″ and 140 something or 5′ 7″ and 130 something? What began as a pretty much unobtainable dream/desire to weigh 137 pounds has turned into a reality for me.

As I write these words, I weighed myself this morning at 135 pounds—with my panties on! I can safely say that I am now a permanent sissified citizen of the 130-139 weight club. Yep, that’s the real me below.

My Sissy Weight Loss Journey

This is a break-down of how the time-frame transpired. I keep a spreadsheet of my weight (I’m such a sissy nerd):

For most of 2016 I weighed somewhere in the 150’s. I got a brief glimpse of the 140’s towards the end of that year.

2017 saw me in the upper 140 pound range. 2018 was more of the same but I broke through to 139 at the very end of that year. For 2019 I’ve been consistently in the mid-to-high 130 pound range.

It was imperative that I spent a significant amount of time in each weight compartment so as to allow my self image to ‘catch-up’ with my new, lower weight.

It took me over 3 years to go from 155 pounds to 135 pounds. Yes, I could have lost that 20 pounds in less than three months if I had really wanted to. But, like I stated earlier in this article, the weight wouldn’t have stayed off.

Three months just isn’t enough time to change your deeply held beliefs about who you are. After 20 pounds of relatively rapid weight loss, I still would have psychologically been a 155 pound person—and would have acted accordingly in putting the weight back on.

It would have been a classic case of subtle-self-sabotage at its best.

Back in 2016 my internal weight thermostat was set to reflect something between a more-or-less 155 pound macho male and a wanna-be sissy. Now I identify as a 135 pound serious sissy—and a slim and sexy one at that.

The past three years has been an identity-changing process; and it was the perfect time-frame for me to do it in. Is it possible that you could change your identity, weight-wise, in a shorter amount of time? Maybe so.

Creating a New Identity For Yourself

As a sissy, you can weigh whatever you want. You don’t have to be a skinny-assed sissy… but if that’s your desire—and it might be since you’re reading this article—then you will, over time, need to change your identity by re-setting your internal weight thermostat.

It’s neither necessary nor advisable to try to hasten the process. It takes some time. You just need to patiently progress into your new you.

Babies naturally go from crawlers to walkers
Self-made billionaires morph from being broke to rich
Ugly crossdressers transform into transgender beauties
Sissies progress from masculine to more feminine… and maybe even from heavier to lighter

Improving your life in any way is a matter of embarking on a process that entails constant and consistent progress. During this journey you are methodically morphing into something different… creating a completely new identity for yourself.

You really can’t short-circuit this identity-changing process. Your desires must be congruent with your current beliefs about yourself, otherwise you’ll experience what is called ‘cognitive dissonance’ and any changes just aren’t gonna stick. You can’t fake a new identity—it’s gotta be real.

If you’re willing to embrace this WAY of losing weight and not succumb to the “I want it all—and I want it now” attitude so prevalent in our impatient culture, then you might be interested in what physical actions you need to take in order to permanently lose weight.

Are You Ready For The “WHAT”?

As a former compulsively obsessed runner—turned certified personal trainer—turned professional dieter—turned skinny sissy, I have been able to zero in on the most effective and healthiest methods to lose weight.

That’s what Part 3 – The WHAT of the “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto” is all about.

Now that you have this crucial ‘mindset’ part of MtF weight loss down, then the actual actions you need to take become an after-thought… just an ongoing part of this sissy weight loss process.

It’s now time to set your sights on the next lower weight compartment and move on to the WHAT.

A Sissy Hourglass Figure?

If you’re interested in achieving that coveted—and much admired—hourglass figure, you may want to check out my article: The Sissy Feminizing Workout For an Hourglass Figure.

The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto – Part 1

June 24, 2024June 24, 2024 by Jordyn Addison

Note: This is Part 1 of the 3 part “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto” series. For optimal results, reading Part 2 – The Way or Part 3 – The What out of order is NOT recommended.

Looking your best is important to all girls—especially sissies—and there are not too many feminizing endeavors that can make you look better than losing those extra pounds. Sure, your makeup is ultra important, but being slim and sexy is certainly near the top of many of, if not most of, a sissy’s ‘I-want-to-be’ list.

Being a skinny sissy will allow you to look better in (and out of) clothes. On top of that, becoming svelte will make you:

more passable
younger looking
desirable
able to find a partner easier
feel more confident
healthier (so you can live a longer sissy life)

Concentrate On What You Can Control – Sissy Weight Loss

The hard truth is that there are some things that are out of your control in your quest to become the best sissy you can be. For example, there is only so much a great makeup job can do to turn a masculine face with a square jaw into something with more feminine lines. Taking hormones and/or undergoing feminizing facial surgery are expensive procedures.

If you’re content with being a part-time, crossdressing sissy, then you wouldn’t be interested in those types of permanent MtF transformation interventions anyway.

Growing out your hair and keeping your nails long and painted might not work well at your job or around family and friends. Some sissies won’t even keep their bodies free from hair because of real or imagined social ramifications.

As a personal example, because of my chronological age, I have drooping eyelids… and I’m not contemplating surgery for them anytime soon. Combined with my less-than-stellar makeup skills—I don’t apply makeup everyday—my fem-face doesn’t always look super great.

Since I don’t have total control over my age and eyelids, I’ve made the decision to focus on my body. Although I’m not super-passable by any means, because of my relatively slim shape (5’7″ – 133 lbs), I look pretty damn good in clothes when I go out en femme. I’ve made my girlish figure my strength to compensate for the areas that I don’t have much, if any, control over.

I know as well as any sissy that there are just way too many feminizing things a sissy can’t, doesn’t want to, or is simply unwilling to do on a consistent basis to accentuate the sissification process.

But losing weight really shouldn’t be one of them! If you’ve struggled with weight loss in the past, then this controversial eating program might be just what you’re looking for.

Although getting good with makeup certainly quailifies as being something you can control, it’s relatively expensive to purchase and takes a ton of time and effort to become proficient at it.

Losing weight will actually save you money (eat less food) and save you time (fewer and shorter meal times). And once you’ve mastered the art of skinniness, you will be able to shop for all the skinny jeans and sexy dresses you want without worrying about not being able to fit into them three months down the road.

Leveraging Your Sissy Assets

I don’t know about you but being a sissy can leave me quite confused at times. One thing I’ve noticed is that when I’m feeling psychologically ‘all-in’ as a girl, I’m much more motivated to do girly things… like lose weight.

So instead of focusing on feelings such as embarrassment, dysphoria or shame, I’ve decided to embrace my sissyness and use it as an asset to enhance my overall life.

Being slim and trim improves your life as either a man or a woman—depending on who you want to present yourself as on any given day. A skinny sissy makes for an overall healthier and happier person.

I encourage you to use your sissiness as a springboard to a better life. Focusing on your femininity can be so much fun. It’s damn sexy to shave a slim and toned body leaving it silky smooth.

Whatever your sissy assets happen to be, put your best sissy foot forward and use them to your full advantage. Fostering feminine qualities like beauty, sensitivity and sexiness can bring so much peace and contentment into your life. Being slim and trim can set the tone for more femininity to follow.

The Why, The Way, The What

This Part 1 of “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto” has zeroed in on the WHY of sissy weight loss. After reading this, it shouldn’t be difficult for you to clearly see why a sissy’s focus should be on losing those extra pounds.

There’s absolutely nothing else you can do—something that’s entirely under your control—that will enhance your sissyness more than having a slim, sexy body.

If you’re struggling to lose weight, you already know that you’re not alone. Being a slim and sexy sissy doesn’t have to be all about sacrifice, struggle and deprivation. Although it’s definitely not easy at first, especially if you don’t know about changing how you identify with your body, it is entirely doable.

Most people, including sissies, focus their energies on the methodology of losing weight… the different diets, exercise programs, etc. That part is the WHAT of how to permanently lose weight and I thoroughly cover the best weight loss methods that I’ve found in Part 3 of this manifesto.

Naturally, that’s the part that everyone wants to read first. I’m here to tell you that by beginning with the WHAT is completely ass-backwards. It would be like putting the cart in front of Cinderella’s mice.

Do you ever wonder why such a small percentage of people who try, manage to ever lose a significant amount of weight—and even if they do—90% of them inexplicably put it all back on (and then some) within a few months?

It’s because they first don’t understand their WHY of losing weight. As a sissy, you now know your WHY by reading this first part. But even more importantly, they aren’t aware of the underlying but extremely essential WAY of losing weight.

The WAY to lose weight is to gain an understanding of the unseen forces that are currently controlling how much you currently weigh. You’re probably not even aware that they exist.

This very important ‘WAY’ is what I talk about in Part 2 of “The Sissy Weight Loss Manifesto”. Being aware of what’s going on inside of your pretty little sissy head MUST come before implementing the WHAT, the specific weight loss methods.

Taking a short-cut by going directly to Part 3 will, more-or-less, ensure that you will never get that sexy, sissy body of your dreams.

Now that you know your WHY I hope you are inspired to continue to Part 2… the WAY to sissy weight loss.

A Sissy Hourglass Figure?

If you’re interested in achieving that coveted—and much admired—hourglass figure, you may want to check out my article: The Sissy Feminizing Workout For an Hourglass Figure.

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The Sissy Tucking Guide

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If you’re a sissy that enjoys presenting your sexy-self to the world, it’s important to skillfully tuck your male stuff out of the way in order to have that all-so-important flat-feminine-front.

There has been enough articles posted and videos made about the various methods of tucking. So much so that things can get quite confusing. Everyone seems to think that their way is the best way.

The thing is… there is no best way. You do however, want to find the best way to tuck for you.

This sissy tucking guide will help you to determine that.

First Off – Forget the Gaff

The modern gaff is simply a compression type of panty that is designed to hold your penis and balls in place once you have them positioned properly.

Feel free to use a gaff if you want. There are so many types and styles available. Or just a pair of tight-fitting panties might do the trick. You probably already have a pair of panties that will work.

The main thing to realize is that you don’t really need a gaff for sissy tucking.

Are You a Shower or a Grower

Some sissies—like me—are fairly small when soft but grow to an average size when stiff. Other girls (showers) are larger when flaccid but don’t necessarily get significantly bigger when aroused.

Growers—like me—don’t need to be so concerned with sophisticated tucking. Just tuck your clitty down, facing rewards, into your panties and you’re good to go.

Showers, on the other hand, need to adopt more serious measures in order to adequately hide things away.

Also, certain circumstances will determine how much tucking-effort is necessary. For example: a trip to the beach in a itsy-bitsy bikini will require a superior tuck job. Same probably goes with a night out on the karaoke stage.

The Lost, Secret Inguinal Canals

Many tucking tutorials will advise you to first pop your nuts back to where they originally decended from—the inguinal canals. These pockets purportedly lie on either side of the upper pubic area. You first find their openings and then gently press/poke your balls up into them.

This sounds all well and good… IF they are really there and… IF you can find them!

I’ve never managed to locate these so-called pockets on me, maybe because I’ve had a hernia patch type of surgery which could be blocking them off.

But that should only be the case for the side I had the surgery on, right? Or maybe I don’t have these super-hard-to-find-and-possibly-non-existent canals/pockets.

Other CD and TG continue to insist that they are definitely there. Whatever. The good news is that it’s not necessary to have, much less find these inguinal canals in order to do a more-than-competent tucking job.

The Quick and Dirty Way to Sissy Tucking

One quick and dirty way to tuck is to use either duct or light-weight packing tape. Although this method is quick, it’s also dirty. I’ll explain why the latter is true at the end of this section. Duct tape is strong and sticky. Packing tape is less sticky and not as strong (but strong enough).

For this method you will need 3 pieces of tape about 16 inches long. First you position one of your nuts up to the side of your pubic area. It is now pushed up, lying underneath the skin, up and out of it’s ball sack.

Then, pushing your penis and nut sack down between your legs—facing rearward—you place one piece of tape just above the nut and tape diagonally, over your package, skirting your butt crack, and then winding up on the opposite butt cheek.

Then, while pushing, and then holding the other twin up, you place the second piece of tape in the exact but opposite manner as the first.

Now you take the third piece of tape and place the end in the center, just above the pubic area, and tape straight down, over your butt crack, ending up between and just past your butt cheeks.

I used a thinner, more specialized form of duct tape below, but any 2″ wide duct tape will work.

Now slip into a sexy pair of panties to cover everything up and you’re tucked and ready to head out. Your highly-positioned nuts make for a nice looking camel toe effect.

A few things to consider:

Be sure to first shave really well (I know, obvious)
The tape needs to be pulled VERY tight so as to achieve the flat-femme look
The light-brown colored, Scotch Brand packing tape blends in with the skin tone much better than gray duct tape (in case an edge happens to show around the bikini line)
You can place a thin sanitary mini-pad over your clitty (underneath the tape) to facilitate removal of the tape later

For size reference purposes, the larger pad is 10″ long.

This tucking-taping method works really well except for one one very important thing: what if you have to pee? Since there’s nowhere for the urine to go, it makes for a wet and messy situation. The trapped moisture also tends to compromise the stickiness of the tape.

There’s got to be a better way… and there is!

My Favorite Way to Tuck

A superior way to tuck (IMHO), still uses tape—albeit a different type—but in a different way. The beauty of this method is that you end up with a flat-feminine-front but retain the ability to pee freely. That’s really important to me.

Instead of duct or packing tape, you will be using masking or clear marine tape. Masking tape is less sticky but has no stretch to it. Marine tape has more sticking power and it’s also stretchy (which is a good thing). Both the masking and marine are of the one-inch-wide variety. In case you were wondering, this is what clear marine tape looks like.

You begin much like in the ‘quick and dirty method’ above, but push both of your nuts up around the pubic area simultaneously, leaving the empty ball sack dangling down below.

Now you sort of wrap the empty sack around your penis so that it’s one, neat little package. You then take the tape and, starting from the top (at the base of where your nuts are now positioned), wrap it tightly around your ball sack/penis package. Continue taping down, toward the end of your clitty, but stopping before you reach the head.

I used blue masking tape in the below photo so you can see it clearly. It’s actually better to use the lighter beige color that you’re no doubt familiar with. I have not personally tested the clear marine tape but have heard that it’s a superior choice because of its flexible nature.

This tightly wrapped package keeps your nuts pushed up, underneath the skin—again creating a sexy camel toe look. You’re now ready to move on to the final part of the taping procedure.

You are now going to use the same 1″ wide tape and place two strips, starting just outside where your nuts are now positioned, diagonally across your wrapped-up package, then through your butt crack, sticking the ends of each piece in the center, an appropriate distance above that said crack.

Like in the quick and dirty method that uses duct tape, these two pieces of tape will wind up being approximately 16 inches long—depending on your particular body dimensions.

You gotta pull these two pieces of tape tight so that you achieve the desired flattening effect.

Also, especially if you’re using masking tape—which doesn’t stretch—it’s a good idea to squat down while fastening the ends at the rear. Otherwise, you risk the tape pulling loose if you do need to squat while out and dressed.

Your clitty is now positioned upside down, facing rear-ward. Since the head has not been covered with tape, you are free to drop your panties, sit down and pee away.

A few notes on tape:

- Remember, use 1 inch wide tape
- Since you are taping directly to the penis, make sure that you don’t use tape that is too sticky
- This point is so obvious… shave first

Chastity and Sissy Tucking

Most sissies love the idea of chastity since sexual denial helps to enhance your sissy enthusiasm. No more unwanted male refractory periods that tend to derail you from experiencing the exquisite sensations of constant erotic arousal.

The problem is that it’s difficult to tuck the bulge created by a chastity cage well enough to not be noticed by a discerning eye.

If you absolutely must stay in chastity—and still want to venture out in public— then, although not a perfect solution, the above pictured chastity device would be an acceptable option.

Alternately, a fake camel toe pad that will fit nicely over a chastity cage might work for you.

While being locked up in a chastity device is not conducive to having a perfectly flat-femme look, using one of the above two work-arounds will, more-or-less, do a satisfactory job.

Speaking of Chastity

If you would like to experience all the sissification benefits that a chastity cage can provide, then you will certainly want to check out my Sissy Chastity Devices Page.